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Pretty In Pink

19 Feb
  • Congratulations Sassy, you are officially sick. I was shot down yesterday morning when I awoke to a sneezing fit, followed by a touch of the gurgling stomach syndrome. Today I’m more congested and my tummy is speaking another language. As I lay here on the couch, nurturing this cold/flu, I am reminded of days gone by when a sick day consisted of Chicken & Stars soup, saltine crackers, ginger ale and The Price is Right. Now we have phones and tablets to keep us entertained and productive, but I miss the simple nurturing pleasures of a day home from school. That being said, today I have graduated to tomato soup, jello & Supermarket Sweep. And my homework? Writing a blog post.

Since I’m just lounging around nursing my symptoms, I figured I would put on my favorite casual pink, soft Juicy Couture track suit for comfort. Never in a million years did I think I’d embrace the color pink in my fashion choices. I’m a redhead. I thought pink would clash and look mismatched. Not only am I loving the addition of pink in my closet but I am also loving makeup products that are coordinated as well. And let us not forget about pink accessories too. So what I have found to make me Pretty in Pink? Okay, Molly Ringwald… let’s see:

·      Wet n Wild Megaslicks Lip Gloss in Sinless – Baby pink at its best! This gloss is super moisturizing with good stay power. A bit tacky but it’s worth it for that shiny, colorful look. It doesn’t hurt that it doesn’t break the bank either. (The color is true to the website swatch!) http://www.wetnwildbeauty.com, $3

·      Notyce Beauty Eyeshadow in Starborn (Shimmer Multichrome) – If a slammin’ pink eye look is in your future, this is an eyeshadow you need in your collection. Like now! I like to play this up with a nice soft white highlighter and a dark grey for a contour. Notyce has a lot of color shifting shades that go great with this shadow to really make your eye look POP! www.notyce.beauty, $18


·      Phase Zero Blush in Cotton Candy – Want a subtle hint of true pink for those cheeks? This is the color for you. I can honestly say that this is the only blush that I’ve ever used up and had to buy another. So kudos to them on that. The color is buildable and doesn’t irritate my sensitive skin. It’s not just for a pink themed day either. It’s definitely light enough that you can wear it everyday with everything! www.amazon.com, $21


·      Crew Neck Insulated Tee in Pink – Winter is here and I’m always cold. I’ll be cold till May I tell people. If you see me, I will probably be wearing a sweatshirt, a cardigan, or something with 3+ layers. This shirt is a super-soft tee with a wide neckline in a true pastel pink color. Not only is it soft to the touch, but it is also lined with fleece. It is so warm and it can still be dressed up or down with a nice necklace or scarf to look super classy. And it’s long enough to keep my bum warm!  As much as I like the pink, I think I need to find a few more in different colors. Temu, $6

·            Victoria’s Secret Thermal Short Pajama Set in Coconut White Lovely [pink & black] Plaid – It’s always a challenge for me to get the perfect sleeping temperature during the winter months. I find myself the most cozy when I’m wearing a warm top & cool bottoms, covered in three blankets. And the window cracked ever so slightly. When I received these as a gift recently, I wasn’t sure if I’d be too cold wearing them, but I found them to be just perfect! SO perfect that I got another set on sale after the holidays. Of course, I always need a perfect pair of socks to keep my tootsies warm while I sleep but I really find the PJs comfortable and warm. And, of course, they are highly stylin’! Victoria’s Secret, $30

·     Juicy Couture Urban-Heritage Bowler purse in Black/Pink – I am the first to admit that I am down for almost anything Juicy. I have bags, pajamas, robes, jewelry, track suits and more. I even have a metal tumbler for my favorite cold beverages. My purses however are my beloveds. I have two Daydreamers, several totes and some unique styles. My latest favorite purse was this elegant yet fun bowler purse that holds quite a bit (yes, size is everything) and just yells chic. It goes perfectly with both my pink and black pairs of winter boots. A great find on Poshmark for a good deal. (I paid $30 for this bag.)

So from the beginning of 2025 and thru this past Valentine’s Day, I have been embracing the various shades of pink that are lifting my winter blahs. Solids, plaids and prints are all front and center in my closet and since I don’t have as much going on with the cold and snow, I could wear it whenever my mood is a little cool as well—it warms me with cheer. Not to mention the makeup looks that I’m creating are borderline hot! So what will the new spring season be bringing to the color table? I’m not completely sure but don’t be surprised if shades of blue seem to sneak in there somewhere. Let’s watch what the fashion experts have to say and we will go from there. Until then?….

Pre-Playoff Football Style…

21 Jan

What do we do to kill time until the game starts?

How about a mini-makeover!!

New Year, New Products!

17 Jan

Happy New Year! I hope 2025 brings you lots of joy, happiness, health and hope for you and yours. I also hope your holiday season was filled with love, smiles and laughter. Now that the hustle and bustle has died down, we are faced with the reality that we are smack dab in the middle of winter. Don’t everyone cheer at once. If you were near me in the Northeast, you’d be bitching about the cold & wind. Not so much the snow (which has been less than normal) but definitely the temperatures. This means I need to add more moisture to my skin care and makeup routine. Plus I need some self-indulgent things—new year, new me—am I right? Maybe I just need more glitter. 😊

Here are a few of my frequently used products this winter. So far? I am loving each item and have no complaints

Sunday Riley C.E.O Vitamin C Rich Hydration Cream – My usual brand of brightening cream finally ran out this month. After having a subscription box for over 5 yrs, I definitely had a few samples to try to see what I might like to switch to, What I found was a full-sized jar of this Sunday Riley cream. Score! This has made my face look and feel awesome. This deeply hydrating cream has 5% jar-stable Vitamin C which visibly brightens dull looking skin while giving you advanced antioxidants, I find that you can use it alone or with an extra moisturizer over this cream for extra dry skin. Great find! Sundayriley.com, $65

NYX Bear With Me Blur Tint Foundation – I had told myself that I didn’t need any new foundations. I have four that I usde, all with a different purpose for my look and skin tone. For example my lighter shade cream foundation gets used more in the winter than the summer. But this foundation caught my eye immediately with the word blur. I am not a huge fan of the dewy look, and I have minor skin imperfections that I’d like to hide. This foundation does the trick. First? You don’t need a lot. Its coverage is great. You can get a thinner coverage if you use a damp sponge to apply it. Otherwise, just dab little dots all over and blend with damp fingers. My skin tone is paler than pale, so I went with shade 02 which matches perfectly. It isn’t very moisturizing and more of a matte finish so make sure you use a good moisturizer or moisturizing primer before using the Blur Tint. Nyxcosmetics.com, $14

Wet n Wild Color Icon Kohl Liner Pencil in Baby’s Got Black – I have a few liquid liners pens that I use when I’m looking to do a sharp, crisp lining look. Sometimes I want to cut the crease and smudge out a liner pencil for some liner art. This pencil, for a discount store find, is great! Not only is it easy to blend but it also sharpens to a fine tip that helps get a smooth line on the top and bottom waterline. It stays put all day without smudging or fall out under the eyes. A great, inexpensive find! wetnwildbeautyl.com, $1.29

Notyce Beauty Iridescent Duochrome Eyeshadow in Pixie – This winter I am finding I am all about the color pink. I have a few fashions in fuchsia/hot pink which was hot last year and seems to be sticking around. A lot of stores are featuring soft/baby pink pieces (and even practical boots) this winter and I’m running with it. It gives off a cool icy feel, I think. When I started noticing Notyce’s fabulous eyeshadow shades, this one really grabbed me. It can be a bold lid color or a stunning highlighter—on either the eyes or even the cheekbones. And a pop on my bottom lip too? Gorgeous! Looks great with heavy black liner on the eyes. Notyce Beauty can be found on their website as well as at their Etsy store! http://www.notyce.beauty or on Etsy, $14

Style Edit Root Concealer – It seems like we do things slower in the winter. Chores around the house, running errands, making dinner, putting away laundry. (That specifically is longer than the already horribly long that it takes when it’s still warm.) Right now, it has been a very long time since I’ve been to the salon. The cold, windy weather seems to call “It’s not that bad, stay home” too many times this season. I’ve reached the point where it time to hide. My roots I mean. I got a sample of this in some subscription box and buried it in a drawer of samples. It surfaced last week and it’s been tested when I go out to pick up some things & run errands. Goes on easy almost like a spray paint can, covers the area completely and matches my color red perfectly. They have a lot of different shades to choose from. I can finally be seen at the market till I get my hair brightened. Find this at styleedit.com, $34

So on we go, tackling what January has to throw at us. Sure, we will be faced with cold temperatures, windy conditions and the occasional snow up here in the Northeast, but it only gets better after that. Soon we will be talking spring fashions and summer safety. But let’s slow down, stary warm and safe, and enjoy the great fun and memories that 2025 will be sending our way!

Oh, and

Gag Me With a Lip Gloss…

1 Apr

When any of us early Gen X’ers hear anything about the 80’s, our minds go right back to all the great memories of that time period. Gummy bracelets, lace hair bows, melting our eye liner with a lighter, shiny Lip Smackers, etc. Although we can gently bury a good portion of the fads back then, some will show up in your makeup drawer again this spring/summer season. Want to know what is going to be hot once again? Let’s Go-Go and find out:

Every Rose Has Its Thorn

Bright blush was a definite siren for an MTV GenX’ers. The blush would go from the middle of the cheek and sweep up HARD, right into the hairline by the temple. This season the shades are again bold and noticeable too. The best way to get this manipulatable color is to find a buildable balm, a cream blush or a blush stick. Colors in hot pink, brick, coral are perfect for a rosy cheek look. Sassy’s Pick: e.l.f. Putty Blush in Caribbean, $7 (Target)

Blue Eyes

Elton John might have sung about lonely blue eyes that filled with tears, but when it comes to blue eye makeup, it’s back with some power! The 80’s embraced rich, velvet baby blue shadows swiped across our lid in more of a pop art esthetic. Don’t shy away from bold & bright blendable blues as liners and cut crease colors. There are also many companies that have irridecent white/blue combos which give this classic look a bump up to modern. Sassy’s Pick: Notycebeauty Folklore Collection in Nymph, $6 (Etsy)

Lipps, Inc.

Bold lips never really go out of style completely. Even bold browns and tans can turn heads  with a softer look. This year’s lip fads go far beyond a simple matte. Not only are high gloss and shimmers out for our enjoyment but they are at a new level. Matte lips are still nice, but there is nothing wrong with a good high shine gloss as a topper. And the hot color for warmer temps?  FUSCIA!!!  For extra fun, find a gloss with a glitter and iredecent shimmer. Colored glosses need to be reapplied more often but some of the colors are to drool for. Don’t pass them by. Remember Madonna’s deep red lip look? Yeah. That. Sassy’s Pick: Jeffree, What the Fk Liquid Lipstick, $12 (Amazon)

Eye of the Tiger

Your eyes may not look like a wild cat’s but your brows can fluff out nicely for the fuller brow look this year. Brooke Shields was our eyebrow idol during the 80’s with the with face-framing brows to die for. (Where did THAT go awry?) Murphy’s Law says if you tweeze them into the latest in look, they will be thicker the next year. If you are going to let yours get a little thicker for this season, find a good growth serum made for brows and lashes. Invest in a good lash primer to thicken what you have, follow with a brow mascara, fill in any spaces then sweep a cotton swab with witch hazel to clean up the edges and shape to your liking. Sassy’s Pick: L’Oreal Voluminous Lengthening Lash Primer, $11; Urban Decay 2-in-1 Eyebrow Pen & Waterproof Pencil, $28. (Ulta)

Even though colors and makeup looks this year are bold, bright and colorful, it’s important not to wear everything AT ONCE, looking like you are ready to audition for “Dallas”. Right? Beuller? You get the gist of what to look out for this spring/summer. Start slow, find your comfort level and then have fun. And if someone mistakes you for Tiffany, just smile and sign their sneakers. Enjoy spring, master these tricks for the season and don’t forget…..

Winter Fashion Trends

3 Jan

‘Tis the season for winter weather and all its cold slop it drops on us. Where I reside however, we have seen a dusting on the ground that only lasted 5 hours. That’s it. Someone made a joke about the state of my state is so bad, even winter moved away. That’s funny stuff. I keep saying February is going to be a mess. We will see. I need to winterize my car and closet just in case I begin to see he calendar getting close to April. Winter will be here. When is anyone’s guess.

Just because winter went MIA doesn’t mean that the season’s runway looks get buried in the glamour graveyard. They will be here and they don’t care what the weather is outside. So get creative and try new applications and sets for your vanity and closet. Using what is fashion forward for the season and the weather.

Start with something simple to start and find what works for you. Just make sure you look for these hot trends starting now:

  • Reds: All reds are front and center this winter. From cherry red to dark tomato, those reds will be out. So wear them! It has been said that brick shades will be exceptionally hot in makeup, especially heavy lip liner and eye contour colors. I’m a fan of this one and put it at the top of my list. I didn’t like reds till I was convinced by my friends that redheads can wear red. For example, brick lips literally go with anything & everything. Don’t be surprised if you find purses, shoes, camis and accessories in all the hot shades of red. I’m learning to love with this trend.
  • Winter Accessories in Blue: Jazz up a black peacoat or leather jacket or maybe a white puffer coat with royal, navy or even baby blue add-ons. Try to keep the lighter colors for gloves, scarves and earmuffs the accessory shade for lighter colored coats. Don’t let that make you hesitant to put some navy gloves, a pompom beanie and a sexy tote accent a gorgeous white sherpa ¾ length. Bring out those blues!
  • Dark Denims: speaking of blue, leave the black jeans in the closet next to the washout bleached jeans. It’s a season of deep dark blue for this winter’s denim trend. New shades and styles might show up, but take it up a notch with dark indigo shades. The current silhouette of choice is straight-leg or wider, but all you really need to do to be on point is pick a look that you like in a blue hue that compliments you.
  • Teddy Bear Shearling & Faux Fur: I’m so happy. I tell people… now that winter is here? I’ll be cold till the end of April. I’ve been stocking up on shearling and fleece fashions more than usual really just for warmth. But now that I know they are warm AND in style this season? SCORE! With Valentine’s Day stuff out now (don’t get me started), I’m sure teddy bear tops will be out and on sale most likely. Faux fur tote bags, purse bling, makeup bags, bucket hats, the list goes on. I saw this coming last year so I hit sales across the board all year. Don’t forget—they are a perfect go-together with those deep indigo flared denims too. Yay me, yay my closet!
  • Combat Boots: HOORAY! Doesn’t matter the weather or temperature, combat boots are on my must-have nearby footwear. I love the comfort of them but I mainly love how I can accessorize my wear-with-anything footwear. I’ll wear bandanas around the (circa 1984), chains (circa 1990), clip on flowers (circa Blossom). Just make sure they are comfortable. If they are a bit snug or a slight rubbing on a little toe, don’t do it. You want your combat boots to melt onto your feet. Butter… they should feel like butter. Invest in the leather and treat it against the elements. It will pay for itself!

I have to say I was pleased with the trends for this season. I don’t embrace red fashions well but I’m definitely trying to find shades that I think compliment me and my hair color. The faux fur is fun in fashion but I think I’m going to go the handbag route and maybe some hoodies. I think the extra layers and warmth will get me till summer or 80°, whichever comes first. And to add some deep blue extras, indigo flared jeans and my fave combat boots give me so many options for style, warmth and comfort. Now if you will excuse me, I’m going to celebrate 2024 in a cozy, comfortable way. On the couch. Have a fabulous new year….and stay sassy!

September Must Haves…

20 Oct

I had been getting an Ipsy subscription bag for geesh… 8+ yrs? After all this time, I have found items I have fallen in love with. I even found some that have intentionally fallen in the garbage. This month I decided to try some of these great samples and see how my skin, hair and nails look and feel. Now I know why so many companies choose to sample a new product during the perfect time of year. Purchase point, price, need, want and money timing all play a part. Let’s see what items got my attention in September:

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Skin Care: Ultra Tonic Watermelon Extract Facial Toner

I used to use a facial toner each time I washed my face. I like knowing that no traces of makeup are left and my skin has a correct Ph level. Cleansers are a must but I like that extra bit of “ahhhh” that the toner gives me. This toner has a nice light watermelon scent but what’s even better is that it doesn’t burn my skin, causes no irritation and gives my skin an overall softer feel. I can see how this would be a nice pick me up on my face out of the refrigerator in the summer. That’s a double “ahhhhh’. Dew of the Gods Ultra Tonic /Watermelon Extract Facial Toner, $29.25

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Make Up — L.A. Colors Browie Wowie Brow Pomade

There was a time when you didn’t leave the house without doing your brows which usually took 30 min +/- . Now? I’ve managed to get them to a decent shape by precise tweezing and becoming a skilled brow ninja with sharp-tip tweezers and a mirror. After seeing this L.A. brow pot with a nice brush, I felt I had to give it a try. It was a bit more challenging at first but the look was natural, the color was spot on and it got much easier over time. Tip: Do a quick #2 pencil line to follow then create your look by painting with the liner brush and a spoolie. This was such a great price, I bought a backup a week later. L.A. Colors Browie Wowie Brow pomade (Soft Brown) $7.99

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Hair and Nails — NYK1 Super Strong Nail Glue for Tips, Acrylic and Press On Nails

After almost 30 years of biting my nails, I quit cold turkey on 12/5/1997. I remember the date because it was a huge accomplishment for me. I wanted long, hooker red nails without sitting for an hour, filing, pushing and soaking only to have them tear off and get weak in about 10 days. I love the designs of fake nails but I usually lose about 7 out of 10 in the first three hour. Then a friend said I had to try this glue. Better than Gorilla Glue. Best selling nail glue on Amazon. I felt this was definitely challenge worthy and I went for it. I read the instructions which is very important. Get your tools, grab your fitted nails, use the glue as directed and go! They stick and they stay. My pointer finger will usually come off first, but that’s because I use it as a.tool. This way of doing my nails is not damaging them and I’m pleased on how easy and long wearing they are. My nails are very long and growing stronger. I now happily choose prepainted nails so they don’t chip and even if I lose one, I will sand down the glue and the inside of the nail and reapply. Easy peasy, lemon squeezy! NYK1 Super Strong Nail Glue, $12.99

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Fashion — Sidefeel Women’s Flare Bell Bottom Jeans with High Waist

They are back and I couldn’t be happier. I’m not a skater girl, but my sister was a child of the 60’s so I lean towards the hippie lifestyle. Well, for 10 days a year at least. I had ordered a pair of jeans earlier last month that fit terrible. I wanted a pair of jeans that made my ass look phenomenal without having to pour myself into them. Well, I found them. With frayed bell-bottom hems. They actually come in other styles and colors butI was drawn to these immediately. Don’t miss this comeback trend this season. Want ideas on how to keep a flared pair of jeans tucked into your high boots or UGGs this winter? Duct tape around the ankles of the jeans. Make sure you lay them flat against your ankle so the tape and the denim doesn’t bunch up. It’s definitely a seasonal casual jean that can look chic with anything stylish on top this season. (Add specific ‘23 fall fashion items that are styling like red tops, sweaters & tops with peplum bottoms, bright colored lightweight flannels, fuzzy jackets and so much more.) Sidefeel Women’s Flare Bell Bottom Jeans with High Waist, $42.00

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Accessories — POWSAV Store 18 Outlets Surge Protector Power Strip

It may seem ridiculous to get a power strip with this many outlets but let me tell you— it’s not. My hairdryer uses one and covers one up because the plug is so big. In fact 4 of my outlets do that. I have three different charging cords that go to my ring light, my LED’s, and a neon sign on my mirror. This easily is worth every penny and even if I need a “Stay Sassy” window sign, there is room to plug it in. Surge Protector Strip, $24.98

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**BONUS**miisso Ultra Slim Power Bank w/Built in charging cords

Organization is beyond a necessity to me. My papers are filed alphabetically, spices are organized by season, medicines are sorted by time taken or are alphabetical. And don’t even get me started on my clothes. Oh my closet! You get the point. What was the point? Oh yeah, if you free up space in your life, it will be more organized. This charger takes up very little space and it’s pink. Can recharge your cell phone with one full power bank charge. Definitely going to bling it out then slip it in a small compartment in my purse. Works for Apple 10–pin jacks and a C jacks, which are attached. Ultra Slim Power Bank, $27.98

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I definitely found some great goodies that have been a help right when I got them in September. Thanks to all the reviewers who leave honest reviews. It’s always a good surprise when you find an item that is reviewed by non-influencer who just loves great products. Like me.

Things are off to a slow start this month so we will see what we can do to stay fab. Till then…… Stay Sassy!

** All of the products I write about are linked to my Amazon store. Purchases made there will result in commissions earned, however it does not affect the final purchase amount of the item(s). Bottom line—we will have fun, shop a little and we all win!**

And don’t forget…

August Must Haves….

27 Aug

Summer is winding down. Since I spent my spring AND summer dealing with various surgeries, broken bones, extensive appointments and procedures, I’m looking forward—or should I say hoping—that fall will bring easier travels and good health. That hasn’t stopped me from testing out some good products, either from store samples, good finds or glamour subscriptions. I do pay for each item I list and if I do get the product I will test for free from the company, I will let you know.

So what stirred my curiosity this month, with a positive result—positive it will be in my beauty routine from now on? Let’s see see what I have found:

Skin Care:

ColourPop’s Pretty Fresh Hyaluronic Hydrating Foundation in 10N: I think any one who wears foundation has been through the torment of finding the best formula AND the right shade. I had bought a ColourPop foundation a year ago but my skin wasn’t as fair now as it was then. So, during a great Ulta sale, I was able to get a darker shade for only pennies. This formula is fabulous for all kinds of skin. The medium coverage is perfect for covering up imperfections without a cakey feel. Your skin stays hydrated while giving you a smooth finish all day. I apply it with a wet sponge then setting it/baking it with translucent powder. Available in over 40 different shades. Ulta, $16

Makeup:

Maybelline’s New York TattooStudio Long-Lasting Sharpenable Eyeliner Pencil with 36 Hour Wear in Deep Onyx: I doubt I’m the only one who actually uses between 1-3 different eye liners on their eyes nowadays. I need a waterproof waterline pencil that LASTS; a tight, thin liquid liner for the top lids; a pot gel liner for smudging and smokey looks; and any color liners for layering and creasing. I’ve used my share of waterline pencils over my lifetime and I can finally say I have one that can survive my typical days. Tattoo Studio pencil is the bomb. I always get the pencils that need sharpening because I want that line controlled! Plus? It just stays put and doesn’t run or smudge, looking fabulous for hours & hours. No other eye liner pencil will knock this off my #1. Amazon, $6.30

Hair & Nails:

Cake’s The Curl Friend: I don’t know if it’s a mid-life thing but out of the blue, my hair got wavy. It’s had a little bit in past years but now I can actually put product on my hair and scrunch to get textured waves. I am loving it. I can spritz some water on my hair or towel dry it, then rub a quarter sized drop of The Curl Friend into your hands and comb your fingers through your hair, scrunching as you go. Not only will your curls be defined, but this cream also calms frizz and keeps your hair shiny. I’m loving the wavy volume I get when doing a light blowout. Rite Aid, $9.69

Fashion:

Acid Wash Denims: Yeah, I said it. It was great to hear that acid wash jeans are back in style this fall and I couldn’t be happier. Not only does it remind me of my 21 and over clubbing days, but the outfits you can create win today’s different style fashion pieces, and accessories can really put a new spin on this unique style of denim. Of course, you may want to add one or two different types of jeans, but mix up your styles. A pair of acid wash cargo pants puts two styles that are stylin’ this season together. you really can’t forget some other fun pieces, such as vests, jackets, and even fall flats from the shoe department. Accessories too – – studded denim bracelet, as well as gorgeous handbags will be around as well. I’m sure! Shein EZweqr High Waisted Flap Pocket Cargo Jeans, $27.62

Accessories:

Pre-owned Designer Handbags: I will admit that I am a sucker for a Betsey Johnson, Coach or Juicy Couture purse. I’m always looking for the fun but the traditional on all those are classic. A while back, a handle on one of my juicy bags let loose. I wasn’t too pleased that the repair would ruin its aesthetic too. A friend told me if I liked that one style so much, I should look for it on Poshmark. Well, I’ll be dammed, I found it. It can in all its glory and I was proud to give it a new home. Before you step out with all that cash, hit up your local consignment shops and thrift stores. I’ve found some great names in my local stores. Know your knock offs first then go browsing. Won’t hurt to have apps or bookmarks open when you go purse shopping! Poshmark Juicy purse, prices vary.

With fall quickly approaching, this is the time we want to look for those end of summer sales. Keep an eye out for sales on tops, tanks, jeans, shoes, handbags, boots, and oddities (lip gloss, hair pins, wallets, pj’s, etc.) to jazz up and create this season’s new fashion trend. Share what you create! I’d love to see what art you made with fashions! But until then…..

This or That……

13 Aug

I have been studying and reviewing glamour and skin care products for over ten years now. I have tried a LOT of things. All different things too, from head to toe. As the cosmetic industry evolves, so do the products. New ingredients and formulas can make your favorite life savers almost obsolete. Of course, that does not mean you have to go out and buy every new product that has just been released. It can, however, give you other options depending on what you feel you might need or may want to improve. This can be especially important when you have sensitive skin. Something may be okay one day and then cause irritation the next. You need a back up. You need alternatives.

You also must remember, though, that many skincare targeting products can take up to 6-8 weeks to show any improvement in that area. Try to give the products you are choosing time to work the way they are supposed to. If you notice something new is working better than your previous product, hooray for you! Go ahead and switch if you want. But do not forget your previous faves. You may need to fall back if something in your routine goes off the rails.
Here is a list of my skin care “this and that’s” which have worked their way to the top of the list over the years, as well as some that are super new that I am loving right now. Especially with summer causing my skin to become finicky depending on the heat and humidity. It is really important to have products that are lighter and gentler close by. Alternatives are a must, and here are mine:

CLEANSERS

MAC Cleanse Off Oil – A perfect oil cleanser that loosens up everything from foundation to waterproof mascara. I apply it all over my face with a circular motion then remove it with a pre-moistened cleansing cloth. It comes off easy and my face is soft and clean. ($24)

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Banila Co. Clean It Zero 3-in-1 Cleansing Balm – This balm is the bomb! Packed with healthy skin ingredients, it feels like a light-weight gel. It melts from the temp of your body, loosening up any daily makeup or dirt. Rinse with water, micellar water or a wet face cleaning cloth to remove thoroughly. ($19)

SERUMS

Skin Inc. My Daily Dose of Glow – Just a small amount on your fingertips is enough to treat your face to what it needs each day. Pink and blue “bubbles” pop open to fortify your face with Vitamin A, Chlorella extract to combat damaging free radicals, and hyaluronic acid. This instantly combats aging and calms the skin while hydrating and brightening your skin. Light weight and gentle for all skin types. ($65)

LUE Balance by Jean Seo – This is a very thin serum that helps to hydrate as well as calms the skin from incidental irritants. If you want to use this with a heavier targeting serum, put LUE’s on first. It is thin and easily absorbed into the face without a heavy greasy feel. It also is a great base to minimize pores while still helping to restore optimal moisture retention. ($15)

TwinMedix Pro:Essentials E5 – I have been using TwinMedix Skin Care for over 5 years and I cannot tell you how amazing my skin has become because of it. Its medical grade vitamins keep your skin looking amazingly young. The E5 is formulated with pure vitamin E to help soothe, protect and heal & protect damaged skin. It’s the perfect last layer before your moisturizer. ($90)

TONERS

Pixi Glow Tonic – I had stopped using toners many years ago. A waste of time, I thought? Not so. Toners have been reformulated over the years and are now an essential part of a skincare routine. This is my daytime toner because I like the way it removes the last traces of dirt and cleanser, getting the skin its cleanest before you apply your serums. Filled with skin brightening natural extracts, this product gives your face a nice, natural glow. ($18)
Ulta Watermelon Facial Mist – I admit it, I am a sucker for anything watermelon scented. I have been since I was a kid! Even on “no makeup days”, a spritz of this will help keep my skin fresh and hydrated. Need a quick cleaning? Spray the mist on a cotton ball and go over your face to give it a quick detox. The watermelon extract balances the skin’s hydration while giving you a scent you will absolutely love! ($10)

MOISTURIZERS

TwinMedix Pro Refine Moisturizer – After YEARS of oily skin, I just thought my skin would never need anything with any type of moisturizer in it. Well, that was wrong! First, maturing skin definitely needs some type of moisturizer no matter what condition my skin is in. Second, there is a BIG difference between moisturizer and hydration. It is good to use products that give and create both. Not only is this moisturizer great for all skin types (especially sensitive skin) but it also gives you a nice, even matte finish to your face. A must have in my vanity. ($18)

Sunday Riley Ice Ceramide Moisturizing Cream – Even with all of the products that I have been able to try and use over the years, I am still reminded that money can be a deciding factor when purchasing makeup and skin care. The Sunday Riley brand is known for how good it hydrates and pampers your skin, but many see the price tag and shy away. I get it. I definitely get it! I was lucky enough to get TWO small sample jars of this moisturizing cream in one of my subscription boxes over the winter, and it came at the perfect time. It is more for dry, mature skin. But when my face is dealing with dry, tight skin from the weather, indoor heat, or cold winds… this is the pampering my face needs. ($65)

*H2O Hydration Oasis (Honorable Mention)* – In the summer (especially this year), it can feel too hot to wear any makeup. That does not mean that your skin should be neglected. This gel moisturizer goes on cool and extremely light to replenish much needed hydration without it feeling heavy on your face. A couple of dots is all my face needs to keep it smooth and dewy. It is also a great base to add a bit of my mineral foundation to so I can blend it together for a slightly tinted skin hydrator without that sweltering makeup feeling.

MASKS

Sand and Sky Australian Pink Clay Pore Refining Face Mask – There is something special about taking the time to give your face a pampering session. Because clay is a great ingredient to help reduce oil on the face and helps to tighten pores, this is a nice mask to use in the summer to keep your skin in check. Apply it to a clean face, let dry, then remove it by splashing it off in the shower or sink. Your skin will feel firmer and give you a wonderful glow.

Hey Honey Sweet Treat Wild Berry & Honey Yogurt Recovery Mask – Packed with tons of antioxidants from dark skinned berries, this creamy mask not only gives you a boost of hydration but it also contains the healing properties from the honey to build your skin’s protective barriers as well as restore its elasticity. Added Vitamin E also helps to heal and restore your skin’s moisture balance from this 15-minute pick-me-up treatment. ($48)

EYE CREAMS

TwinMedix Pro:Refine Eye Corrector – I think many of us are waiting for that love all, save all, spend all eye cream that will bring our eyes back to looking like they did when they were 19. When it comes to keeping your eye area looking young, you need to look for good ingredients. After that, however, it is all on you. Consistency is key. This cream comes in an easy to dispense bottle and the results were noticeable to me in just two weeks. The skin is lighter under my eyes, has helped to reduce the fine lines in the corners as well as plumps the areas were deep lines tend to settle. This quick-absorbing light cream is perfect for anyone and works during any season. ($35)

Soroci Spot Light Eye Cream – Here is another little gem that was found in a monthly subscription bag and now has become a mainstay in my daily routine. A little goes a long way when using this cream that is packed with various peptides to give the area around the eye elasticity to help avoid “tightening” skin that can cause wrinkles. It does not bother my eyes, even wearing contacts, and its skin-toned cream goes on translucent giving the eye area a nice smooth look.

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This may seem like a LOT to process when it comes to finding the right products that work with your skin type, the results you are looking for, and the ingredients you may or may not be able to use. As always if what you are using is working? Feel free to stick with it. You need to remember, however, that products and ingredients are constantly evolving, some giving you even better results you may be getting now. Do your research, do not hesitate to ask for a trial size if you want to see how a product works, and read reviews. Including mine! Hopefully, you will find the latest skin care items that can keep your face looking amazing, becoming the perfect canvas for the look you want to achieve!

The Lipstick Effect…

2 Jun

As I was checking my website this morning, I realized that I haven’t posted anything to my blog since February of 2020. Yeah, I know, I have been slacking. But I honestly have a few good reasons. First and foremost, a week after my last post, I got sick. I mean REALLY sick. COVID was just beginning to be discussed and the symptoms of the virus were just coming to light. I went to the ER because the fevers I had were horrible, I ached from head to toe, and I had completely lost my sense of taste and smell. At that time, the only test they could give me was a flu test. That came back negative. Once they saw that, however, I was IMMEDIATELY sent home. I was sick for almost three weeks. When I finally felt good enough to regain my regular routine, the country had gone into shutdown mode and my place with the tattoo shop had temporarily closed until further notice. Now, three months after that… I am home. Still. *sigh*

I am not going to get political or medical in this post. I am not here to bitch and complain. I will not take a personal stance on what the country is going through, what my out of work friends are dealing with or my thoughts on the state of our society. I am a writer. I write about the glamour industry. I write about makeup and skincare. I write about things like lipstick colors, good moisturizers and shoes. Sometimes I write about my love of coffee and my appreciation of nature. And to be honest with you, that is what I am going to continue to write about.

So before I get into future posts about what products I’m loving, needing, appreciating or feel just meh about, I want to talk to you about something I have noticed over the past three months. Something I learned about MANY MANY years ago, and never had the chance to see it in action until now. Why do women (and yes, some men) feel the need to shop extensively for beauty items when times are tough? Since the end of March–when the world had gone into a “pause” because of this pandemic–I have seen people all over the world not just talking about makeup but also BUYING it. A LOT of it! Money is tight for some, many people are out of work, others haven’t left their homes in months. Yet questions about what is the best foundation, lipstick, nail polish, hair dye and so many others show up on my social media throughout the day. If I am not going out for anything other than medicines and groceries, why would someone want to know what my favorite eyeliner is right now? The answer is simple… it’s called “The Lipstick Effect.”

Taken from shmoop.com, the definition of the “lipstick effect” is explained as follows:

The economy is slowing down, and as a result, we are tightening our financial belt. For instance, we were going to buy season tickets to see our local football team, but now we’re just going to upgrade our cable package instead and watch the games at home… It gets its name from the phenomenon that the chairman of Estée Lauder noticed after 9/11: the company’s lipstick sales were going through the roof even while the economy was tanking. The theory here is that people can’t necessarily afford the luxury items they would’ve bought before—like, say, a diamond necklace—so they compensate by buying a smaller, cheaper luxury item. Like lipstick.

I am going to take that and put my own Sassy spin on it. A huge number of us have lost our jobs due to closings or have had hours and/or pay reduced. Any money we have is being put aside for necessities: housing, food, medications, utilities and other bills. Essentials. Things like the plans for a new couch, repairing the deck or getting a new stove are all put on hold. It is not a priority right now. But by nature, we thrive when we can give ourselves a bit of luxury now and then. For example, before the pandemic, it might have been a case of going out to get a gallon of paint for the garage door and coming home with that AND the big new gas grill that was at the store’s entrance at the same time. On a lesser level (but no different), it would be going to your local pharmacy to get your blood pressure medication and grabbing a bag of candy and a magazine while waiting at the checkout. That’s why it’s there. It is a quick, impulse buy that makes you feel good. And, of course, some are more expensive than others. Now, after being shut down for 3+ months, many of us feel we need a fix. A fix of something that isn’t really needed, isn’t too expensive but will make us feel lavish and somewhat alive again. Normal. You can’t justify or even afford a pair of Louboutin heels but you CAN find a way-make a way to get that Chanel Lipstick in shade 92-AMOUR. You may not even go anyplace special, but when you wear it you will feel FABULOUS. And that is important for some people’s sanity.

Is there anything wrong with that? That is on you. Everyone’s situation is different. No matter how you justify it, excuse it or deny it, the fact remains that since the Great Depression, The Lipstick Effect still happens during rough times. Especially right now. Makeup and skin care industries aren’t flourishing at this moment, but they are seeing that definite trend. Because of the expansion of the glamour market, this phenomenon includes many more things like nail polish, mascara, eye palettes, serums and even bath items. Prices of these items vary, but for a good shopper you can find that most will not break the bank. Do you really need them? That’s your call. Do what you think is right for you. For your wallet and your sanity. And keep smiling.

Current Subscription Box Faves…

24 Feb

Each month, it’s like Christmas. I get three different subscription boxes (hopefully four soon!) loaded with goodies to try. Sometimes I get full-sized products, other times it is just little trials. I like the minis the best, I think. Because I have super sensitive skin, not everything works for me. This gives me a chance to try out some new items without losing money if it isn’t something that is right for me. There have been times that I have fallen in love with some of the goodies I get and have invested in full-sized products when I run out. If you are new to the skincare or makeup revolution, this is a great way to get your feet wet before diving in head first!

Over the past few months, I have to say that I have found some great items. With the seasons changing, this is a great time to try some different colors for spring looks as well as add some skincare items to help adjust to the new temperatures. And we can’t forget the hair and nails too! So what are some of my latest faves? Let’s see:

The BrowGal Eyebrow Pencil in Medium Brown My brows are something that I have never really messed around with. A makeup artist that I know has always said “Don’t f*ck with the brows… leave them alone!” I have followed that tip faithfully…. until a couple of weeks ago. I won’t get into details but I had a slight mishap with a lighter which left my right eyebrow looking a little off. Okay, I burned half of it off. Don’t ask. But I had gotten this pencil a few months ago and it was finally going to get used. With my dark red hair, this was the perfect shade that I needed. It is a very good sized pencil that comes with its own sharpener as well as a shaping spoolie. I have already picked up another one of these because I know this is going to take a while to grow out and fix. Insert pathetic half-grin here. ($23)

Sunday Riley ICE Ceramide Moisturizing Cream – As soon as the temperatures outside dropped about 20 degrees and the heat kicked on, my face began to get dry. I do have extra rich moisturizer for when the weather gets colder, but this came at the right time to test out. I love how it feels on my face! It is super rich but not greasy at all. Not only did it give me that extra boost of hydration that my face needed but it also left my face looking smooth and matte. A really great product with a noticeable result. ($65)

Ciaté London Extraordinary Translucent Loose Powder – I learned last year at The Makeup Show that HD powder can cause a flashback with cameras when using high-powered flashbulbs. When I made this change for my makeup before my last photoshoot, the difference with how my skin looked in the photos was amazing. I had the chance to add this product on to a subscription last month, and I’m glad I did. The formula is soft and silky with no shine or opalescent shadows. It’s the perfect product to help “bake” your makeup. Seriously, a must-have product for artists, performers and models. ($22)

Banila Co Clean It ZERO Cleansing Balm – I don’t really hide the fact that I wear a lot of makeup. I like a bold eye look every day, and usually have a dramatic lip color to match. Because skin care is super important for me at my age, I want something that is going to get everything off easily. Someone had mentioned that cleansing balms worked great so I grabbed ZERO as an add onto my monthly subscription from Ipsy. I absolutely love how it melts onto my skin loosening everything from eyebrow pencils to an all day glitter lip look. I wipe it all away easily with a cleansing wipe and I’m done. From there I follow up with my nighttime regimen. Super happy with this product and will look for it again in he future. ($19)

Luxie Blending Brush #237 – I have no problem saying that I am addicted to makeup brushes. From thin eye liner brushes all the way to big fluff brushes, I can find a use for every one I get sent. I got this brush several months ago, and as soon as I saw it I knew it was going to get used often. And it does. It is the perfect size with the perfect amount of “fluff” to gently cut my crease with a touch of contrast shadow. Or, if I want a stand out look, I can use it to gently blend several colors together without making a blurred mess. I have found other subscribers who aren’t brush lovers like me and had decided to sell theirs which allowed me to pick up about four more. And that’s fine by me! ($14)

Although I am always very strict with myself when it comes to good skin care and makeup, I am always happy to see what is new out there that I may not know about. I think subscription boxes are a great way to try and see without making a huge financial commitment. Especially for people like me with fussy skin.

So tell me: Do you have a favorite subscription box/bag? Are you thinking about switching? What have you found that you love? Chime in and let’s get a coffee talk started!