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September Must Haves…

20 Oct

I had been getting an Ipsy subscription bag for geesh… 8+ yrs? After all this time, I have found items I have fallen in love with. I even found some that have intentionally fallen in the garbage. This month I decided to try some of these great samples and see how my skin, hair and nails look and feel. Now I know why so many companies choose to sample a new product during the perfect time of year. Purchase point, price, need, want and money timing all play a part. Let’s see what items got my attention in September:

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Skin Care: Ultra Tonic Watermelon Extract Facial Toner

I used to use a facial toner each time I washed my face. I like knowing that no traces of makeup are left and my skin has a correct Ph level. Cleansers are a must but I like that extra bit of “ahhhh” that the toner gives me. This toner has a nice light watermelon scent but what’s even better is that it doesn’t burn my skin, causes no irritation and gives my skin an overall softer feel. I can see how this would be a nice pick me up on my face out of the refrigerator in the summer. That’s a double “ahhhhh’. Dew of the Gods Ultra Tonic /Watermelon Extract Facial Toner, $29.25

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Make Up — L.A. Colors Browie Wowie Brow Pomade

There was a time when you didn’t leave the house without doing your brows which usually took 30 min +/- . Now? I’ve managed to get them to a decent shape by precise tweezing and becoming a skilled brow ninja with sharp-tip tweezers and a mirror. After seeing this L.A. brow pot with a nice brush, I felt I had to give it a try. It was a bit more challenging at first but the look was natural, the color was spot on and it got much easier over time. Tip: Do a quick #2 pencil line to follow then create your look by painting with the liner brush and a spoolie. This was such a great price, I bought a backup a week later. L.A. Colors Browie Wowie Brow pomade (Soft Brown) $7.99

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Hair and Nails — NYK1 Super Strong Nail Glue for Tips, Acrylic and Press On Nails

After almost 30 years of biting my nails, I quit cold turkey on 12/5/1997. I remember the date because it was a huge accomplishment for me. I wanted long, hooker red nails without sitting for an hour, filing, pushing and soaking only to have them tear off and get weak in about 10 days. I love the designs of fake nails but I usually lose about 7 out of 10 in the first three hour. Then a friend said I had to try this glue. Better than Gorilla Glue. Best selling nail glue on Amazon. I felt this was definitely challenge worthy and I went for it. I read the instructions which is very important. Get your tools, grab your fitted nails, use the glue as directed and go! They stick and they stay. My pointer finger will usually come off first, but that’s because I use it as a.tool. This way of doing my nails is not damaging them and I’m pleased on how easy and long wearing they are. My nails are very long and growing stronger. I now happily choose prepainted nails so they don’t chip and even if I lose one, I will sand down the glue and the inside of the nail and reapply. Easy peasy, lemon squeezy! NYK1 Super Strong Nail Glue, $12.99

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Fashion — Sidefeel Women’s Flare Bell Bottom Jeans with High Waist

They are back and I couldn’t be happier. I’m not a skater girl, but my sister was a child of the 60’s so I lean towards the hippie lifestyle. Well, for 10 days a year at least. I had ordered a pair of jeans earlier last month that fit terrible. I wanted a pair of jeans that made my ass look phenomenal without having to pour myself into them. Well, I found them. With frayed bell-bottom hems. They actually come in other styles and colors butI was drawn to these immediately. Don’t miss this comeback trend this season. Want ideas on how to keep a flared pair of jeans tucked into your high boots or UGGs this winter? Duct tape around the ankles of the jeans. Make sure you lay them flat against your ankle so the tape and the denim doesn’t bunch up. It’s definitely a seasonal casual jean that can look chic with anything stylish on top this season. (Add specific ‘23 fall fashion items that are styling like red tops, sweaters & tops with peplum bottoms, bright colored lightweight flannels, fuzzy jackets and so much more.) Sidefeel Women’s Flare Bell Bottom Jeans with High Waist, $42.00

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Accessories — POWSAV Store 18 Outlets Surge Protector Power Strip

It may seem ridiculous to get a power strip with this many outlets but let me tell you— it’s not. My hairdryer uses one and covers one up because the plug is so big. In fact 4 of my outlets do that. I have three different charging cords that go to my ring light, my LED’s, and a neon sign on my mirror. This easily is worth every penny and even if I need a “Stay Sassy” window sign, there is room to plug it in. Surge Protector Strip, $24.98

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**BONUS**miisso Ultra Slim Power Bank w/Built in charging cords

Organization is beyond a necessity to me. My papers are filed alphabetically, spices are organized by season, medicines are sorted by time taken or are alphabetical. And don’t even get me started on my clothes. Oh my closet! You get the point. What was the point? Oh yeah, if you free up space in your life, it will be more organized. This charger takes up very little space and it’s pink. Can recharge your cell phone with one full power bank charge. Definitely going to bling it out then slip it in a small compartment in my purse. Works for Apple 10–pin jacks and a C jacks, which are attached. Ultra Slim Power Bank, $27.98

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I definitely found some great goodies that have been a help right when I got them in September. Thanks to all the reviewers who leave honest reviews. It’s always a good surprise when you find an item that is reviewed by non-influencer who just loves great products. Like me.

Things are off to a slow start this month so we will see what we can do to stay fab. Till then…… Stay Sassy!

** All of the products I write about are linked to my Amazon store. Purchases made there will result in commissions earned, however it does not affect the final purchase amount of the item(s). Bottom line—we will have fun, shop a little and we all win!**

And don’t forget…

Bella’s Wellness Routine….

19 Sep

When I learned Bella wanted to be a guest blogger on my site, I was beside myself! I know of her struggles with various fitness and wellness endeavors till she discovered she could do this herself. She read, she wrote, and made the healthy changes to get the life she deserved. Grab a coffee, a blanket and read how she took back herself!:

Bella knows the wellness struggle. For years she bounced from fad diet to trendy wellness treatment, back and forth and back and forth, leaving both her and her bank account feeling depleted. Eventually, she had to say, enough is enough. She began carefully researching wellness trends to find the best, most affordable options for her. At Well Now, she shares some of the tips and advice she has gathered from her ongoing wellness research.

Get Fit and Remain Frugal: Here’s How

It’s no secret that healthy living is the key to a long, productive life. But did you know it can also reduce your financial burden? Living well doesn’t have to break the bank. Today, Sassy Auburn explores some simple tips and tricks for saving money while making sure you stay healthy. 

Start the Day Well

Let’s kick-start our day in the most energetic way possible. Think of your body as a car; it won’t run smoothly without the right fuel. So start your morning with a hearty, nutritious breakfast packed with protein and fiber. It’s like giving your body a high-five! Now, before you dive into your emails or get lost in the sea of social media updates, take some time for a quick workout. Whether it’s a brisk walk in the park, a sweaty home workout, or a peaceful yoga session, moving your body first thing in the morning is like telling your fitness goals, “I’ve got my eyes on you!” Remember, a well-started day is half the battle won in the quest for health and fitness. So jump out of bed, embrace the morning sun, and make every day a good health day!

Cut Health Care Costs

One of the most expensive elements of being healthy is paying for health care costs. Fortunately, there are a few ways to save money in this area. If you’re in the market for medical insurance, shop around for the best deals and always read the fine print before signing up. Also, consider speaking with your doctor about generic prescriptions or over-the-counter alternatives instead of brand-name drugs.

Prepare Food at Home

Eating out can get expensive quickly. To save money on food expenses while also sticking to your dietary goals, try preparing meals at home more often than not. Search online for easy recipes that won’t break the bank but will still fill you up. Investing in kitchen appliances such as an Instant Pot can help make meal prep even easier and faster than ever before.

Cut Down On Meat

Control your meat consumption by using meat substitutes such as tofu or tempeh instead which are usually cheaper. Additionally, try using different types of beans and lentils as main sources of protein — these types of legumes are generally much cheaper than animal proteins. And finally, try cutting down your meat intake by eating one vegetarian meal per day — this simple switch can result in huge savings over time.

Stock Up on Healthy Items

Stock up on nutritious, budget-friendly staples like legumes, grains, and dried fruits, especially if your local store offers bulk discounts. Furthermore, look into purchasing organic foods. Organic foods may cost more initially but are often cheaper in the long run due to their higher nutrient content which could potentially lead to better health overall.

Reduce Coffee Spends

Choosing the type of coffee you drink is key — if you choose wisely, you can make it at home and save lots of money. But finding the right beans for your homemade brew can be tricky. Drinking coffee in moderation is a great way to get fit and frugal. Not only can you choose from a variety of types of coffee, like light or dark roast, but making it at home also helps you save money on expensive coffee-shop drinks. To learn more about finding the right coffee beans and making them into delicious beverages, visit the experts at Caffeine Gurus.

Exercise at Home

Gym memberships can be pricey, but staying healthy doesn’t have to be. There are tons of free online exercise videos and apps available for streaming — all you need is some space and motivation. Plus, exercising outdoors when possible allows us all to enjoy much-needed vitamin D and fresh air — and the best thing is, it’s free!

Turn Your Healthy Lifestyle Into a Business

Consider starting an LLC focused around promoting healthy lifestyle choices, such as offering nutrition classes paired with physical exercise programs. This type of business would allow individuals seeking healthier lifestyles an opportunity to invest time and money into something that would benefit them in multiple ways. Furthermore, starting your own LLC brings with it numerous advantages, such as tax breaks and the potential for future business expansion.

Turn Your Healthy Lifestyle Into a Business

Believe it or not, living healthy doesn’t have to be expensive. With a bit of creativity and resourcefulness, you can lead an active lifestyle while still keeping your costs low. Get fit and frugal now, and enjoy the best of both worlds!

August Must Haves….

27 Aug

Summer is winding down. Since I spent my spring AND summer dealing with various surgeries, broken bones, extensive appointments and procedures, I’m looking forward—or should I say hoping—that fall will bring easier travels and good health. That hasn’t stopped me from testing out some good products, either from store samples, good finds or glamour subscriptions. I do pay for each item I list and if I do get the product I will test for free from the company, I will let you know.

So what stirred my curiosity this month, with a positive result—positive it will be in my beauty routine from now on? Let’s see see what I have found:

Skin Care:

ColourPop’s Pretty Fresh Hyaluronic Hydrating Foundation in 10N: I think any one who wears foundation has been through the torment of finding the best formula AND the right shade. I had bought a ColourPop foundation a year ago but my skin wasn’t as fair now as it was then. So, during a great Ulta sale, I was able to get a darker shade for only pennies. This formula is fabulous for all kinds of skin. The medium coverage is perfect for covering up imperfections without a cakey feel. Your skin stays hydrated while giving you a smooth finish all day. I apply it with a wet sponge then setting it/baking it with translucent powder. Available in over 40 different shades. Ulta, $16

Makeup:

Maybelline’s New York TattooStudio Long-Lasting Sharpenable Eyeliner Pencil with 36 Hour Wear in Deep Onyx: I doubt I’m the only one who actually uses between 1-3 different eye liners on their eyes nowadays. I need a waterproof waterline pencil that LASTS; a tight, thin liquid liner for the top lids; a pot gel liner for smudging and smokey looks; and any color liners for layering and creasing. I’ve used my share of waterline pencils over my lifetime and I can finally say I have one that can survive my typical days. Tattoo Studio pencil is the bomb. I always get the pencils that need sharpening because I want that line controlled! Plus? It just stays put and doesn’t run or smudge, looking fabulous for hours & hours. No other eye liner pencil will knock this off my #1. Amazon, $6.30

Hair & Nails:

Cake’s The Curl Friend: I don’t know if it’s a mid-life thing but out of the blue, my hair got wavy. It’s had a little bit in past years but now I can actually put product on my hair and scrunch to get textured waves. I am loving it. I can spritz some water on my hair or towel dry it, then rub a quarter sized drop of The Curl Friend into your hands and comb your fingers through your hair, scrunching as you go. Not only will your curls be defined, but this cream also calms frizz and keeps your hair shiny. I’m loving the wavy volume I get when doing a light blowout. Rite Aid, $9.69

Fashion:

Acid Wash Denims: Yeah, I said it. It was great to hear that acid wash jeans are back in style this fall and I couldn’t be happier. Not only does it remind me of my 21 and over clubbing days, but the outfits you can create win today’s different style fashion pieces, and accessories can really put a new spin on this unique style of denim. Of course, you may want to add one or two different types of jeans, but mix up your styles. A pair of acid wash cargo pants puts two styles that are stylin’ this season together. you really can’t forget some other fun pieces, such as vests, jackets, and even fall flats from the shoe department. Accessories too – – studded denim bracelet, as well as gorgeous handbags will be around as well. I’m sure! Shein EZweqr High Waisted Flap Pocket Cargo Jeans, $27.62

Accessories:

Pre-owned Designer Handbags: I will admit that I am a sucker for a Betsey Johnson, Coach or Juicy Couture purse. I’m always looking for the fun but the traditional on all those are classic. A while back, a handle on one of my juicy bags let loose. I wasn’t too pleased that the repair would ruin its aesthetic too. A friend told me if I liked that one style so much, I should look for it on Poshmark. Well, I’ll be dammed, I found it. It can in all its glory and I was proud to give it a new home. Before you step out with all that cash, hit up your local consignment shops and thrift stores. I’ve found some great names in my local stores. Know your knock offs first then go browsing. Won’t hurt to have apps or bookmarks open when you go purse shopping! Poshmark Juicy purse, prices vary.

With fall quickly approaching, this is the time we want to look for those end of summer sales. Keep an eye out for sales on tops, tanks, jeans, shoes, handbags, boots, and oddities (lip gloss, hair pins, wallets, pj’s, etc.) to jazz up and create this season’s new fashion trend. Share what you create! I’d love to see what art you made with fashions! But until then…..

July Must Haves…

25 Jul

Second month! Woot woot! Now don’t give me slack—I’m running to drs and occupational therapy for my bilateral broke wrists plus other drs visits. In addition to all this plus preparing for Eric and I’s yearly trip to our art camping festival, things have fallen a tad behind. Plus I’m a bit concerned on how much I can take while healing. I’m hesitant to put myself way out there while I continue to mend I must say. I am tired of watching time pass me by out my living room window for another season. So we will see how this goes.

Skin Care:

DERMA E Vitamin C Concentrated Serum with Hyaluronic Acid – I think a good face serum is a necessity. You’ve got that skin for the rest of your life… you need to take care of it every day. When you get a serum, try to target only one or two major concerns. You don’t want skin care overload. Derma E’s serum keeps my face bright, even toned plus a boost of hyaluronic acid for soft, smooth skin A little is all you need and it absorbs quick. Keep your light shining bright as well as your skin. **Tip: Add a drop of 100% pure Vitamin E oil to your daily serum to help heal tiny cracks in your skin from weather, sun, environment or others but still remember that sunscreen!) Amazon, $20.49 (20% off coupon available at times)

Makeup:

Realher I Am Convinced Setting Powder— I am the first to admit that the “must have” item in a drag workroom that I too call a must is loose, translucent powder. Depending on the occasion, you either lightly dust to set or you sit with waiting to “bake” it on. No oven needed. Your body temp will soften your foundation, fill fine lines then set it with a loose layer of powder. I found quickly that carrying a tub of loose powder in your purse a horribly messy situation. This great pressed powder is lightweight and gives your skin a nice matte finish without any clumping or smudging on the skin. The shade is perfect and I couldn’t be happier. A big score for Ipsy on this one. (Click picture to link to product)

Hair & Nails:

Seche Vite Dry Fast Top Coat – It was a while back when I read a Top 5 Reader’s Favorite Top Coat list in a fashion magazine. I was able to find Seche Vite’s very easily in my local CVS. It did not fail. Everything that the users raved about was fact. It dried fast, was super shiny, chip proof and was smooth to work with. My only complaint? Because of its quick dry formula, it begins to thicken and clump in the bottle within a few months. Now, I just buy one at the beginning of each summer since that’s when my mani’s and pedi’s are most important. This by far is my go-to brand. Nothing has come close and it’s the only top coat you will find in this house!! (Click picture to link to product)

Fashion:

White Tanks – I couldn’t be happier to see this trend on this season’s list. I love tank tops not just because they are cool in the summer but because you can wear them as a layer with jackets or sweaters. This season, you’ll find cute tanks with flower trim, rhinestone necklines, and carefully placed splotches of color. And to rock a bold bright white color brings a touch of class to the look even a bit more. And please… we all know a white tank with a denim bottom and/or leather jacket just looks FAB! Period. Remember to wear a NUDE regular or strapless bra.) Shein, $6.49

Accessories:

Juicy Couture Puffer Tote – I need another purse like I need a hole in the head. But when my wrists took a turn from whole to pieces, I needed something I could sling quickly over my shoulder. Without difficulty. This not only has the bling, the name and the size I wanted,but the price was a bonus. Holds folded papers and can easily hold a large wallet, a cosmetic bag, and about five other small/medium storage zip bags. This will be around for a while! (Click picture for availability links.)

The collection of goodies that August will feature has already began. Back to school shopping and it’s time for me to look ahead to see what will help you look and feel your best. Always remember if you have any product or availability questions, shoot me a message and I’ll help the best I can.

Till (later) August?……

June Must Haves…

13 Jun


Very often I try to do a favorites list, especially if it is for a new month or season. I’ve decided to really be diligent in consistently listing my five current faves each month. Each fave will fall in a different category so I don’t overload with eye makeup or serums. There will be one new favorite item from the following categories: Skin CareMakeup, Hair & Nails, Fashion and Accessories. Sometimes we will have a BONUS PRODUCT if it can’t fit into a specific category or if it just too fab to be passed over. Got it? Let’s tackle June—

Skin Care:  

Aveeno®️Positively Mineral®️ Sensitive Skin Sunscreen Broad Spectrum SPF 50 – When it comes to protecting my skin from the sun, I’m very particular. I like a product for sensitive skin, a mineral SPF, broad spectrum protection, and highly favored amongst the industry experts…you! This tube is everything this redhead needs to keep her fair skin guarded from the harmful rays. It might not be thought of as skin care but the fact is—it is. Big time. Especially areas around the eyes & neck where the skin is its thinnest. Your sunscreen goes on last in your skincare routine. (To see your order of skincare products, click here.) HUGE help!!! Walmart, $22.96

Makeup:  

L.A. Colors Holographic Iridescent Lipgloss in Sugared— I love all things that shine, shimmer and sparkle. Gloss is back right now in a big way, from sheer to highly pigmented. Don’t let the price get you. This gloss serves! Although the colors are super sheer, they give a great gloss topper. I like to fill in my lips with a liner and topping it off with this gloss. Of course they smell & are flavored like cake batter for extra hearts. Hint: If you want access to one, try finding these glosses in Dollar General. The price is right & you can usually get 1-2 shades for $3/ea or less.

Hair & Nails:

CHI Keratin Flex Finish & CHI Enviro 54 Hairspray Firm Hold—Let me be honest, I haven’t used hairspray in well over 5 years. I was styling my hair differently, my salon was using different treatments, it was healthy and I wanted to keep it that way. Recently I’ve been playing around with other fun looks and wanted to keep my hair in place for a few photos. I usually use the Keratin Flex on M-F giving me a soft hold without stickiness. The Enviro 54 is my go-to for all night, weekend looks and to keep my tresses in place for photos without a stiff, glued down look. In the morning I spray my hairbrush with a light conditioning oil to calm frizzies and gently detangle any knots, then apply a light spray of my CHI hold product. I got these in a trail size, but next time I’ll invest in the full size! CHI.com, $9.98

Fashion:

Red—I know it’s not a piece of clothing or a pair of shoes, but it is necessary to know what are the hot colors of the season to create a wardrobe full of chic. If you can spark your trendy skirt with a statement color, you are 2x ahead of the fashion game. And one of the hot colors this summer is red. From deep cherry red to fiery brights, there’s a red for you.  As a redhead, I have tried to incorporate reds into my wardrobe but I never feel they look good on me. I have been told otherwise however. So I started slow wearing black tops with red accents and a subtle red lip. Now? I’ll go full on. What’s nice about the reds this summer is that the color is going to roll over into the fall/winter fashions too. So get all pieces—camis, tshirts, cardigans, etc.—and be ready to layer! Macys Women’s Ruffled Flutter-Sleeve Knit Top, $24.78

Accessories:

Statement Sunglasses—When the retro cat eye glasses came back into the scene, sunglasses went wild. Everything old is new again. Grab a pair of aviators or sleek cat eye bedazzled sunglasses and rock that look. Make sure your sunglasses protect your eyes from the sun and aren’t just pretty. I like to have a pair that are amber to wear with warm-colored fashions. I also have a pair of black rimless sunnies that go fabulous with a fashion forward denim outfits. Go try some on and see what catches your eye. Bad pun. Sorry. SHEIN Women’s Rimless Rectangle Lens Fashion Eyeglasses, $2.06

BONUS PRODUCT:

Freshly Picked Blueberry Whipped Soap Sugar Scrub—Its really important that you exfoliate your skin head to toe in the summer. When it comes to your body, you want to treat yourself to a sweetly scented bath treat to keep your skin clean and soft after a day in the sun. This absolute delish smelling lightweight cleanser and exfoliator is gentle on the skin with all natural ingredients and stimulates your senses with a tasty scent that screams summer. I will be getting the whole set (body cream and bar soap) of this scent soon! Kingsofcloutco.com, $13.99

Summer is here and we need to be ready. Are you? Sort out that closet of unworn winter items, summer items that just don’t jazz you anymore, shoes & sandals that hurt your feet and worn-out accessory purses and get ready for the beautiful season of summer. Have any questions? Pop me an email! 

Till July?……

 

Fall/Winter Fashions & Trends This Year…

22 Sep

Fall fashions are hitting the stores like RIGHT NOW. Retailers are discovering what Fashion Week has brought to the table this year. And into our closets! Patterns and textures, colors and shapes, accessories and accents. I seriously could write about this coming season’s style for hours. But the fact is? Some of these items are going to go fast. So grab this list and plan a day for yourself—you have some fall updates to make to your personal collection:

Colors

Hot Pink – (Pantone 18-2133TCX *Pink Flambé*) Oh fantastic! Fuchsia is always a dream shade to see, but I often feel it clashes with my red hair. The great sisters at howtobearedhed.com say that us redheads should get that stinkin’ pink thinking out of our head. “[Our mother] went on to explain that, thanks to our redhead locks, we simply couldn’t pull off certain colors of clothing. We’d be washed out…certain colors clash with our hair.” That’s simply untrue. Red hair comes in all different shades, and pink glamour does as well. Go easy or go bold. Just remember to stay true to YOUR style. What I’m loving: Marc Jacobs Medium Quilted Tote in Peony, $94.99 (Saksoff5th.com); Fuchsia Round Neck Gathered Flounce Sleeve Sweater, $18.00 (SHEIN.com); Juicy Couture Zip Front Hoodie, $119 (Macys.com)

Medium Heather Gray – (Pantone 18-0202TCX *Lava Smoke*) Thank heavens—a workable color for everyone! Each season, it’s good to have a color that can coordinate with other colors already in your wardrobe. This color even goes with other colors in this season’s new pallet. A smoky gray can tie warm and cool colors together as well. It literally can go with almost anything! A few loves of mine? DAZY Zip-Up Hooded Teddy Jacket, $32 (SHEIN.com); 1.State Bubble Sleeve Sweater, $12 (Macys.com); Cashmere Long Fingerless Gloves, $19.95 (Amazon.com)

Style

Fur Accessories – YAASSS! I am ALL about fuzzy ANYTHING! I live for glitter and fur, rhinestones and sparkles. And designers are making fuzzy pieces this year that make me drool. From head to toe and accessories in between, you are sure to grab some WOW pieces that will turn heads! Check out: Bow Décor Phone Case, $2 (SHEIN.com); AllFuzzy Purse w/Wristlet, $8.99 (Amazon.com); Steve Madden Faux Fur PomPom Beanie, $19.99 (Norstromrack.com)

Cargo Pants – Pockets, pockets, pockets. This season will give you comfort and organization with different styles and colors of a fashion staple that’s been kicked up a notch. It’s like the 90’s are back with some new edgy possibilities. Hell, rock a TLC’s Waterfalls look—you will still fit right in. Some of my faves: And Now This Cargo Trousers, $49 (Macys.com); High Waist Side Pocket Cargo Jeans, $29 (SHEIN.com)

Clogs – Yes, 80’s generation … they are back in all their glory! This fall is rocking the footwear trend that I may have enjoyed during my high school years (depending on what age I’m lying that I am.) We can’t deny that they are comfortable, easy to throw on and look great with a nice casual denim look. Even some classic brands are making an appearance. You may like: MIA Women’s Elsa Mule, $128 (Amazon.com); kensie Joselynn Clogs, $89 (Macys.com)

EXTRA FAB FAD! – There’s always something out there that becomes the rage for a season. I saw this coming and got mine before it hit the “must have” list. Pop-Sockets were the rage when people knew there was a new way to comfortably hold their cellphones. This is similar except that it is MUCH more blingy. Turn your phone into a “bracelet” with the rhinestone chain and just slide your hand in between the chain and phone. This frees up your fingers to still do things with your phone in hand. And it looks FABULOUS! Glitz and glam at its functional best. Find it here: DEAVON Silver Crystal Bracelet Cell Phone Case, $16.99 (Amazon.com)

Fall has always been my favorite time of the year. The cooler temps, gorgeous colors and scents of the season are always comforting to me. I think the layering of clothes and colors also makes autumn stand out each year. Enjoy these fashion forward ideas and trends this year and keep your sassiness strong during these cooler days!

Sassy’ s Current Faves…

27 Aug

It’s been a while since I’ve kept you in the loop about what beauty and glamour products I have found that have worked their way into my list of current faves. I think I had become comfortable in my beauty routine and didn’t really find a need to look for anything different. Although there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, we do have to realize that the products in our vanity are constantly changing… and improving! Here are a few new discoveries that I am currently crushing on:

Maybelline Hyper Easy Liquid Eyeliner – I always have a liquid liner at hand, but to be honest I do find it a challenge to get my top lid just the way I like it. Which is thin and even. Which almost never happens. I’ve used precise brushes and gels, pens, pencils, you name it. If I could “come close” to a nice, smooth top line, I’d be thrilled. But that very seldom happens. The marketing for Maybelline’s newest liner is outstanding. It even captured my attention when it first came out. Long wear, deep black color, easy-to-hold pen. That was my main draw. (Pardon the pun.) It’s definitely easier to handle compared to other pens and the wear does last all day +. Plus it is super water resistant. No problems with sweat or tears either. I like the tight line I get and don’t think I’ll tire of this liner and its look any time soon. (Maybelline.com, $10.79)

Kiehl’s Powerful Strength Dark Circle Reducing Vitamin C Eye Serum – Who doesn’t want to keep their age hidden for just a little bit? Or a lot a bit? *Sassy raises hand* The first thing that started showing how old I am was my eyes. Fine lines? I could handle that with a good moisturizing eye cream. But what about those dark circles? Rumor has it that those are just shadows from what I call “potholes” that have developed under my bottom lids. I believe my dark circles may be from a couple of other things too. Those include fatigue, thinning skin around the eyes (with dark blood vessels becoming more visible), and even just general eye strain. All of these I can relate too. I’ve tried skin brighteners before, but most just feel like a light moisturizer or greasy oil. Kiehl’s Vitamin C Eye Serum is super concentrated and goes on smooth. After only five days of using it, the darkness was noticeably lighter. Using a small jade roller helped too. Just dot on under your eyes each night after your regular beauty routine and massage it in. Yes, it’s a tad pricey but a little goes a long way for a long time. (Sephora, $50)

Makeup Revolution x Coca Cola Makeup – I very seldom jump on board when a makeup company uses another brand or Influenster to jack up the hype of new line. What I do like is a brand that gives me good products in shades and formulas that I love. I own other Revolution pallets that I absolutely love, but when I heard the Coca-Cola eye pallet was ALL frosts or shimmers, I knew it was a must have. The colors are GORG and highly pigmented. They blend together well and last all day with no creasing. I grabbed the Makeup Revolution x Coca Cola Juicy Lip Gloss in the shade Elevation as well. Although the gloss has a hint of a pink tint (three tints are available), there is no color there really. There IS an amazing taste, scent and shine without terrible stickiness. (Revolution Cola’s mascara was unfortunately unavailable when I made my purchase, so I have no input on that.) All the products have a jazzy sparkle that gives me so many glamorous looks. Not hating at all. (Makeup Revolution & Target: Palette-$17.99; Juicy Lip Gloss, $6.99)

Jeffree Star Magic Star Setting Powder in Lavender – First, let me say for the record that I am not a follower of influencers. I have nothing against (most of) them personally and I totally respect the hustle. But when good products get caught in the middle of glamour drama, I usually say “Check please!” and GTFO. I want to keep my blog as stress free as possible. I have to say, however, that when I find a product that is beyond anything I’ve ever tried, major kudos must be given out. And that’s exactly what has happened with Jeffree Star’s setting powder. The reason I love the lavender is because a minor health condition I have can make my skin seem sallow. It’s hard to adjust my makeup when it does this. After learning so many tips and tricks from The Makeup Show in NYC from the best artists in the business, I began correcting my skin tone with a complimenting color—lavender! After applying my concealer and foundation, I “bake” my makeup with JS’s lavender setting powder and it neutralizes the yellowish appearance of my skin. It feels super soft, plus it even nourishes it as it is packed with Vitamins C & E. I seriously get a flawless, airbrushed look all day. The fact it is scented like cotton candy doesn’t bother my sensitive skin either. I’ve looked around for other lavender powders, but nobody has one. Even if I did find one, I’d doubt I’d ever switch now. This has been a lifesaver! (Jeffreestarcosmetics.com, $22)

ColourPop Pretty Fresh Hyaluronic Hydrating Foundation – I have said to myself that I was not switching foundation brands ever again. I had found one that was a water blend that gave me a sheer, buildable canvas. Then they discontinued it. Then age became relevant with my skin care so I had to find a foundation for specific needs. Last month, I got a subtle summer glow and I needed to adjust for that. Geesh. My foundation needs are shook. After falling in love with an eyeshadow from ColourPop, I decided to research their foundation. It actually caught my eye because the they had several different shades and age-fighting ingredients. I bought this without testing it first, but the swatches online helped me nail the color on the first try. Since I began using it, I have gotten several compliments on how my skin looks porcelain smooth. It is buildable, easy to blend and lasts all day with a powder set. I am very happy with my choice. (Ulta, $16)

Seasons are changing which means there will be some new Fall looks coming soon. I’ll break down what will be hot in fashions and accessories soon too, and the colors to look for. But for now? Let’s rock these products to keep our skin looking and feeling great. All while keeping it sassy, of course!

Remember me?……

5 Jun

Shame! Shame! Shame! I feel like Cersei taking that embarrassing walk in Game of Thrones. Over the past few years, life as we know it has changed. And because of that, my writing inspiration hit rock bottom. My focus turned to, basically, staying alive. With certain health conditions that I have, getting COVID could have killed me.

It’s taken a while (and a few vaccinations) to even get comfortable to resume my “regular” routine. Doctors gave me the okay to go back to work part time, as long as I didn’t go overboard and stayed safe. Things were rolling smoothly as they possibly could and I was pleased to be comfortable in the world’s new normal. My favorite activities were open again, holidays were spent with family and I was in my social element being back out with the general public. My mental health improved without that feeling of confinement, seclusion and depression hanging over my head. I thought I had turned the corner.

Then we welcomed in 2022. Bright future ahead, right? Not really. COVID went into a new strain that was more contagious. The only positive was that if you had your shots, especially for us autoimmunies, the severity would be less dangerous. Winter started out okay but by the end of the March, I felt like ass. Something hit me hard and I couldn’t eat. Like anything. If I got a Jello or ice cream down, it was a good day. But I watched the pounds just fall off me. I was weak, depressed again, low self confidence and very emotional. I worked hard on my health for years… and it was gone in 3 weeks. I was thinner than I was in high school. And that’s not good. It lowers my resistance to diseases and that puts me in a compromising position.

So while drs tried to figure out what was going on with my stomach, I took a fall (unstable from being weak) and fell on a storage tote and broke a rib. Holy shit, that HURTS. It hurt to breathe and my ribs made popping noises frequently. Sleeping was near impossible. That took me out of work—and the outside world—for 4 weeks. *sigh* Here we go again. I did everything the doctors said and by about 3+ weeks, I could sneeze without fainting from pain. I was increasing my stamina, but my stomach was still holding me back. I was able to eat enough to maintain the weight I was at. I just needed to get the missing 15 pounds I lost.

Just when my drs found a medication to help with my stomach, I came down with a simple cold. Or so I thought. After 2 days of head congestion, a cough and a slight fever, I figured I better do a home COVID test. That indicator turned dark purple. I tested positive. I called my doctor who immediately sent in a request for me to receive monoclonal antibodies the next day. The procedure was quick and easy. Now came the waiting game. They said I should feel better in 24-48 hrs. My time was 36 hrs and I felt like a different person. Not only did it fight off COVID, but it “fixed” my stomach issue as well. I’m happy to say I’m now only about 6 lbs from my target weight. Yay me!!

Before COVID, I wrote an article for my local arts paper. I explained how I realized a lot of things weren’t the same anymore. Employment, hours, prices, kindness, manners. Things I thought were a given. I probably could have come back to writing sooner, but I just didn’t want to. No other reason. It wasn’t in me. No inspiration. No beauty trends. The struggle WAS real. But I’m good now. I feel a lot better. Better than I even did before the pandemic. I see that I am ok and will be. Strong and fierce, just like the wrist tattoos say. And I’m resilient. Damn resilient. So don’t fucking try me or my health. The odds are not on your side.

So let’s do this my friends. Let’s get the party started…. AGAIN!!

This or That……

13 Aug

I have been studying and reviewing glamour and skin care products for over ten years now. I have tried a LOT of things. All different things too, from head to toe. As the cosmetic industry evolves, so do the products. New ingredients and formulas can make your favorite life savers almost obsolete. Of course, that does not mean you have to go out and buy every new product that has just been released. It can, however, give you other options depending on what you feel you might need or may want to improve. This can be especially important when you have sensitive skin. Something may be okay one day and then cause irritation the next. You need a back up. You need alternatives.

You also must remember, though, that many skincare targeting products can take up to 6-8 weeks to show any improvement in that area. Try to give the products you are choosing time to work the way they are supposed to. If you notice something new is working better than your previous product, hooray for you! Go ahead and switch if you want. But do not forget your previous faves. You may need to fall back if something in your routine goes off the rails.
Here is a list of my skin care “this and that’s” which have worked their way to the top of the list over the years, as well as some that are super new that I am loving right now. Especially with summer causing my skin to become finicky depending on the heat and humidity. It is really important to have products that are lighter and gentler close by. Alternatives are a must, and here are mine:

CLEANSERS

MAC Cleanse Off Oil – A perfect oil cleanser that loosens up everything from foundation to waterproof mascara. I apply it all over my face with a circular motion then remove it with a pre-moistened cleansing cloth. It comes off easy and my face is soft and clean. ($24)

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Banila Co. Clean It Zero 3-in-1 Cleansing Balm – This balm is the bomb! Packed with healthy skin ingredients, it feels like a light-weight gel. It melts from the temp of your body, loosening up any daily makeup or dirt. Rinse with water, micellar water or a wet face cleaning cloth to remove thoroughly. ($19)

SERUMS

Skin Inc. My Daily Dose of Glow – Just a small amount on your fingertips is enough to treat your face to what it needs each day. Pink and blue “bubbles” pop open to fortify your face with Vitamin A, Chlorella extract to combat damaging free radicals, and hyaluronic acid. This instantly combats aging and calms the skin while hydrating and brightening your skin. Light weight and gentle for all skin types. ($65)

LUE Balance by Jean Seo – This is a very thin serum that helps to hydrate as well as calms the skin from incidental irritants. If you want to use this with a heavier targeting serum, put LUE’s on first. It is thin and easily absorbed into the face without a heavy greasy feel. It also is a great base to minimize pores while still helping to restore optimal moisture retention. ($15)

TwinMedix Pro:Essentials E5 – I have been using TwinMedix Skin Care for over 5 years and I cannot tell you how amazing my skin has become because of it. Its medical grade vitamins keep your skin looking amazingly young. The E5 is formulated with pure vitamin E to help soothe, protect and heal & protect damaged skin. It’s the perfect last layer before your moisturizer. ($90)

TONERS

Pixi Glow Tonic – I had stopped using toners many years ago. A waste of time, I thought? Not so. Toners have been reformulated over the years and are now an essential part of a skincare routine. This is my daytime toner because I like the way it removes the last traces of dirt and cleanser, getting the skin its cleanest before you apply your serums. Filled with skin brightening natural extracts, this product gives your face a nice, natural glow. ($18)
Ulta Watermelon Facial Mist – I admit it, I am a sucker for anything watermelon scented. I have been since I was a kid! Even on “no makeup days”, a spritz of this will help keep my skin fresh and hydrated. Need a quick cleaning? Spray the mist on a cotton ball and go over your face to give it a quick detox. The watermelon extract balances the skin’s hydration while giving you a scent you will absolutely love! ($10)

MOISTURIZERS

TwinMedix Pro Refine Moisturizer – After YEARS of oily skin, I just thought my skin would never need anything with any type of moisturizer in it. Well, that was wrong! First, maturing skin definitely needs some type of moisturizer no matter what condition my skin is in. Second, there is a BIG difference between moisturizer and hydration. It is good to use products that give and create both. Not only is this moisturizer great for all skin types (especially sensitive skin) but it also gives you a nice, even matte finish to your face. A must have in my vanity. ($18)

Sunday Riley Ice Ceramide Moisturizing Cream – Even with all of the products that I have been able to try and use over the years, I am still reminded that money can be a deciding factor when purchasing makeup and skin care. The Sunday Riley brand is known for how good it hydrates and pampers your skin, but many see the price tag and shy away. I get it. I definitely get it! I was lucky enough to get TWO small sample jars of this moisturizing cream in one of my subscription boxes over the winter, and it came at the perfect time. It is more for dry, mature skin. But when my face is dealing with dry, tight skin from the weather, indoor heat, or cold winds… this is the pampering my face needs. ($65)

*H2O Hydration Oasis (Honorable Mention)* – In the summer (especially this year), it can feel too hot to wear any makeup. That does not mean that your skin should be neglected. This gel moisturizer goes on cool and extremely light to replenish much needed hydration without it feeling heavy on your face. A couple of dots is all my face needs to keep it smooth and dewy. It is also a great base to add a bit of my mineral foundation to so I can blend it together for a slightly tinted skin hydrator without that sweltering makeup feeling.

MASKS

Sand and Sky Australian Pink Clay Pore Refining Face Mask – There is something special about taking the time to give your face a pampering session. Because clay is a great ingredient to help reduce oil on the face and helps to tighten pores, this is a nice mask to use in the summer to keep your skin in check. Apply it to a clean face, let dry, then remove it by splashing it off in the shower or sink. Your skin will feel firmer and give you a wonderful glow.

Hey Honey Sweet Treat Wild Berry & Honey Yogurt Recovery Mask – Packed with tons of antioxidants from dark skinned berries, this creamy mask not only gives you a boost of hydration but it also contains the healing properties from the honey to build your skin’s protective barriers as well as restore its elasticity. Added Vitamin E also helps to heal and restore your skin’s moisture balance from this 15-minute pick-me-up treatment. ($48)

EYE CREAMS

TwinMedix Pro:Refine Eye Corrector – I think many of us are waiting for that love all, save all, spend all eye cream that will bring our eyes back to looking like they did when they were 19. When it comes to keeping your eye area looking young, you need to look for good ingredients. After that, however, it is all on you. Consistency is key. This cream comes in an easy to dispense bottle and the results were noticeable to me in just two weeks. The skin is lighter under my eyes, has helped to reduce the fine lines in the corners as well as plumps the areas were deep lines tend to settle. This quick-absorbing light cream is perfect for anyone and works during any season. ($35)

Soroci Spot Light Eye Cream – Here is another little gem that was found in a monthly subscription bag and now has become a mainstay in my daily routine. A little goes a long way when using this cream that is packed with various peptides to give the area around the eye elasticity to help avoid “tightening” skin that can cause wrinkles. It does not bother my eyes, even wearing contacts, and its skin-toned cream goes on translucent giving the eye area a nice smooth look.

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This may seem like a LOT to process when it comes to finding the right products that work with your skin type, the results you are looking for, and the ingredients you may or may not be able to use. As always if what you are using is working? Feel free to stick with it. You need to remember, however, that products and ingredients are constantly evolving, some giving you even better results you may be getting now. Do your research, do not hesitate to ask for a trial size if you want to see how a product works, and read reviews. Including mine! Hopefully, you will find the latest skin care items that can keep your face looking amazing, becoming the perfect canvas for the look you want to achieve!

The Lipstick Effect…

2 Jun

As I was checking my website this morning, I realized that I haven’t posted anything to my blog since February of 2020. Yeah, I know, I have been slacking. But I honestly have a few good reasons. First and foremost, a week after my last post, I got sick. I mean REALLY sick. COVID was just beginning to be discussed and the symptoms of the virus were just coming to light. I went to the ER because the fevers I had were horrible, I ached from head to toe, and I had completely lost my sense of taste and smell. At that time, the only test they could give me was a flu test. That came back negative. Once they saw that, however, I was IMMEDIATELY sent home. I was sick for almost three weeks. When I finally felt good enough to regain my regular routine, the country had gone into shutdown mode and my place with the tattoo shop had temporarily closed until further notice. Now, three months after that… I am home. Still. *sigh*

I am not going to get political or medical in this post. I am not here to bitch and complain. I will not take a personal stance on what the country is going through, what my out of work friends are dealing with or my thoughts on the state of our society. I am a writer. I write about the glamour industry. I write about makeup and skincare. I write about things like lipstick colors, good moisturizers and shoes. Sometimes I write about my love of coffee and my appreciation of nature. And to be honest with you, that is what I am going to continue to write about.

So before I get into future posts about what products I’m loving, needing, appreciating or feel just meh about, I want to talk to you about something I have noticed over the past three months. Something I learned about MANY MANY years ago, and never had the chance to see it in action until now. Why do women (and yes, some men) feel the need to shop extensively for beauty items when times are tough? Since the end of March–when the world had gone into a “pause” because of this pandemic–I have seen people all over the world not just talking about makeup but also BUYING it. A LOT of it! Money is tight for some, many people are out of work, others haven’t left their homes in months. Yet questions about what is the best foundation, lipstick, nail polish, hair dye and so many others show up on my social media throughout the day. If I am not going out for anything other than medicines and groceries, why would someone want to know what my favorite eyeliner is right now? The answer is simple… it’s called “The Lipstick Effect.”

Taken from shmoop.com, the definition of the “lipstick effect” is explained as follows:

The economy is slowing down, and as a result, we are tightening our financial belt. For instance, we were going to buy season tickets to see our local football team, but now we’re just going to upgrade our cable package instead and watch the games at home… It gets its name from the phenomenon that the chairman of Estée Lauder noticed after 9/11: the company’s lipstick sales were going through the roof even while the economy was tanking. The theory here is that people can’t necessarily afford the luxury items they would’ve bought before—like, say, a diamond necklace—so they compensate by buying a smaller, cheaper luxury item. Like lipstick.

I am going to take that and put my own Sassy spin on it. A huge number of us have lost our jobs due to closings or have had hours and/or pay reduced. Any money we have is being put aside for necessities: housing, food, medications, utilities and other bills. Essentials. Things like the plans for a new couch, repairing the deck or getting a new stove are all put on hold. It is not a priority right now. But by nature, we thrive when we can give ourselves a bit of luxury now and then. For example, before the pandemic, it might have been a case of going out to get a gallon of paint for the garage door and coming home with that AND the big new gas grill that was at the store’s entrance at the same time. On a lesser level (but no different), it would be going to your local pharmacy to get your blood pressure medication and grabbing a bag of candy and a magazine while waiting at the checkout. That’s why it’s there. It is a quick, impulse buy that makes you feel good. And, of course, some are more expensive than others. Now, after being shut down for 3+ months, many of us feel we need a fix. A fix of something that isn’t really needed, isn’t too expensive but will make us feel lavish and somewhat alive again. Normal. You can’t justify or even afford a pair of Louboutin heels but you CAN find a way-make a way to get that Chanel Lipstick in shade 92-AMOUR. You may not even go anyplace special, but when you wear it you will feel FABULOUS. And that is important for some people’s sanity.

Is there anything wrong with that? That is on you. Everyone’s situation is different. No matter how you justify it, excuse it or deny it, the fact remains that since the Great Depression, The Lipstick Effect still happens during rough times. Especially right now. Makeup and skin care industries aren’t flourishing at this moment, but they are seeing that definite trend. Because of the expansion of the glamour market, this phenomenon includes many more things like nail polish, mascara, eye palettes, serums and even bath items. Prices of these items vary, but for a good shopper you can find that most will not break the bank. Do you really need them? That’s your call. Do what you think is right for you. For your wallet and your sanity. And keep smiling.