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Pretty In Pink

19 Feb
  • Congratulations Sassy, you are officially sick. I was shot down yesterday morning when I awoke to a sneezing fit, followed by a touch of the gurgling stomach syndrome. Today I’m more congested and my tummy is speaking another language. As I lay here on the couch, nurturing this cold/flu, I am reminded of days gone by when a sick day consisted of Chicken & Stars soup, saltine crackers, ginger ale and The Price is Right. Now we have phones and tablets to keep us entertained and productive, but I miss the simple nurturing pleasures of a day home from school. That being said, today I have graduated to tomato soup, jello & Supermarket Sweep. And my homework? Writing a blog post.

Since I’m just lounging around nursing my symptoms, I figured I would put on my favorite casual pink, soft Juicy Couture track suit for comfort. Never in a million years did I think I’d embrace the color pink in my fashion choices. I’m a redhead. I thought pink would clash and look mismatched. Not only am I loving the addition of pink in my closet but I am also loving makeup products that are coordinated as well. And let us not forget about pink accessories too. So what I have found to make me Pretty in Pink? Okay, Molly Ringwald… let’s see:

·      Wet n Wild Megaslicks Lip Gloss in Sinless – Baby pink at its best! This gloss is super moisturizing with good stay power. A bit tacky but it’s worth it for that shiny, colorful look. It doesn’t hurt that it doesn’t break the bank either. (The color is true to the website swatch!) http://www.wetnwildbeauty.com, $3

·      Notyce Beauty Eyeshadow in Starborn (Shimmer Multichrome) – If a slammin’ pink eye look is in your future, this is an eyeshadow you need in your collection. Like now! I like to play this up with a nice soft white highlighter and a dark grey for a contour. Notyce has a lot of color shifting shades that go great with this shadow to really make your eye look POP! www.notyce.beauty, $18


·      Phase Zero Blush in Cotton Candy – Want a subtle hint of true pink for those cheeks? This is the color for you. I can honestly say that this is the only blush that I’ve ever used up and had to buy another. So kudos to them on that. The color is buildable and doesn’t irritate my sensitive skin. It’s not just for a pink themed day either. It’s definitely light enough that you can wear it everyday with everything! www.amazon.com, $21


·      Crew Neck Insulated Tee in Pink – Winter is here and I’m always cold. I’ll be cold till May I tell people. If you see me, I will probably be wearing a sweatshirt, a cardigan, or something with 3+ layers. This shirt is a super-soft tee with a wide neckline in a true pastel pink color. Not only is it soft to the touch, but it is also lined with fleece. It is so warm and it can still be dressed up or down with a nice necklace or scarf to look super classy. And it’s long enough to keep my bum warm!  As much as I like the pink, I think I need to find a few more in different colors. Temu, $6

·            Victoria’s Secret Thermal Short Pajama Set in Coconut White Lovely [pink & black] Plaid – It’s always a challenge for me to get the perfect sleeping temperature during the winter months. I find myself the most cozy when I’m wearing a warm top & cool bottoms, covered in three blankets. And the window cracked ever so slightly. When I received these as a gift recently, I wasn’t sure if I’d be too cold wearing them, but I found them to be just perfect! SO perfect that I got another set on sale after the holidays. Of course, I always need a perfect pair of socks to keep my tootsies warm while I sleep but I really find the PJs comfortable and warm. And, of course, they are highly stylin’! Victoria’s Secret, $30

·     Juicy Couture Urban-Heritage Bowler purse in Black/Pink – I am the first to admit that I am down for almost anything Juicy. I have bags, pajamas, robes, jewelry, track suits and more. I even have a metal tumbler for my favorite cold beverages. My purses however are my beloveds. I have two Daydreamers, several totes and some unique styles. My latest favorite purse was this elegant yet fun bowler purse that holds quite a bit (yes, size is everything) and just yells chic. It goes perfectly with both my pink and black pairs of winter boots. A great find on Poshmark for a good deal. (I paid $30 for this bag.)

So from the beginning of 2025 and thru this past Valentine’s Day, I have been embracing the various shades of pink that are lifting my winter blahs. Solids, plaids and prints are all front and center in my closet and since I don’t have as much going on with the cold and snow, I could wear it whenever my mood is a little cool as well—it warms me with cheer. Not to mention the makeup looks that I’m creating are borderline hot! So what will the new spring season be bringing to the color table? I’m not completely sure but don’t be surprised if shades of blue seem to sneak in there somewhere. Let’s watch what the fashion experts have to say and we will go from there. Until then?….

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Pre-Playoff Football Style…

21 Jan

What do we do to kill time until the game starts?

How about a mini-makeover!!

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Time To Watch That Weather!…

17 Nov

Seasons are changing by the day lately. For example, the week of Halloween gave us showers, sun, 79 degree temps, 65 degree temps, below freezing some nights, the fan on others, tank tops for fashions and fleece jackets the following day. Five days later, we got a frost. With the weather changing every (other?) day, it’s hard to switch out your wardrobe from late summer heat to late fall cold all at once. I try to keep the fall months “optional” with fashion choices just in case the seven-day forecast has eight weather changes. If any of you live in New York, you get what I’m saying.

So what kind of outfits are good to keep out? Let’s try to get some ideas together of items/outfits you may want to have at your fingertips in case the weather changes on a dime. And don’t be surprised when it does, because it will!

  • 70°+ Unusually Warm Fall Day – Perfect thing about days like these is that it can be styled with your left over summer items that haven’t been packed away yet (if at all). Be prepared with layering items in case the day starts cool then heats up fast. An outfit with a perfect pair of ankle jeans, a favorite cami or tee, a cardigan and a comfy pair of flats is exactly what you’ll need on a day like this. Make sure your clothes and shoes are comfortable to wear because you will want to be out on a day like this.
  • Holy Sh*t It Got Cold – It’s inevitable that winter weather will show up around late fall. I remember as a teen my hometown getting a horrible snowfall on Thanksgiving day. It can happen. So what should you have if the temperatures are bone-chilling cold? Find your longest cold-weather tunic that covers your bum-bum and grab a dressy pair of fleece-lined leggings. Add a pair of combat boots with slouch socks and you are set for visiting or shopping for the holidays.
  • Time To Cook & Bake – The kitchen is cranking this season, thanks to holiday gifts and the festive cooking. If you are drawn into the kitchen this year, dress in something cozy but not too loose. You don’t want your sleeves dipping in the fudge. The oven and kitchen may get warm so wear a lightweight, well fitting short (or long) sleeve top that you can tuck in out of the way. A nice pair of cargo pants/leggings or a super stretchy skinny jean makes it easy to move around while hustling over the cookies and green beans. If you want to put on a track suit, go for it. You can always change when you are done or before a big meal.
  • A Trip To Aunt Pauline’s House – Speaking of visiting, you will need at least one—maybe four—outfit changes for the house parties, dinners and gatherings this fall/early winter. If the same people will be at the various parties, make sure you put your chosen outfit to the side after you wear them. The nice thing about visiting or traveling out of town is that black pants can be your savior. Mix and match your tops and accessories to keep you looking stylish while still feeling relaxed. Integrate those black pants, jeans or leggings into an outfit with a matching lightweight sweater (lots of people will make the house warm), a dressy cami & cardigan, or a festive-colored tunic for a fun get-together. Don’t forget the pearls and sparkles to keep in the seasonal mood.
  • The Office Holiday Party – Oh what to do for a fashionable outfit where the coworkers gather around a bowl of booze after hours. The bottom line is this event revolves around your source of income for you and/or your family… so don’t be an ass or a ho. Wear something flattering but not overdone, especially if it is held AT the office. A nice, long, flowy skirt can be the base of a great outfit without paying a ton or looking overly red carpet-ish. I doubt Aunt Pauline will be there so you can wear the outfit you wore to her house again. Remember that black pants are a lifesaver here and totally acceptable. This is an outfit where accessories can be low key yet classy. Definitely rock the pearls.

I have introduced you to the main outfits you will need this fall and into the winter season. Other than black pants/leggings/jeans and dark indigo blue jeans, what other colors are in style this fall? Look for Pantone’s shades of the season: Remember to feel good about yourself; “Walk like you have three men walking behind you.”-Oscar de la Renta”; and smile. 🙂

Oh, and don’t forget……

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Winter Fashion Trends

3 Jan

‘Tis the season for winter weather and all its cold slop it drops on us. Where I reside however, we have seen a dusting on the ground that only lasted 5 hours. That’s it. Someone made a joke about the state of my state is so bad, even winter moved away. That’s funny stuff. I keep saying February is going to be a mess. We will see. I need to winterize my car and closet just in case I begin to see he calendar getting close to April. Winter will be here. When is anyone’s guess.

Just because winter went MIA doesn’t mean that the season’s runway looks get buried in the glamour graveyard. They will be here and they don’t care what the weather is outside. So get creative and try new applications and sets for your vanity and closet. Using what is fashion forward for the season and the weather.

Start with something simple to start and find what works for you. Just make sure you look for these hot trends starting now:

  • Reds: All reds are front and center this winter. From cherry red to dark tomato, those reds will be out. So wear them! It has been said that brick shades will be exceptionally hot in makeup, especially heavy lip liner and eye contour colors. I’m a fan of this one and put it at the top of my list. I didn’t like reds till I was convinced by my friends that redheads can wear red. For example, brick lips literally go with anything & everything. Don’t be surprised if you find purses, shoes, camis and accessories in all the hot shades of red. I’m learning to love with this trend.
  • Winter Accessories in Blue: Jazz up a black peacoat or leather jacket or maybe a white puffer coat with royal, navy or even baby blue add-ons. Try to keep the lighter colors for gloves, scarves and earmuffs the accessory shade for lighter colored coats. Don’t let that make you hesitant to put some navy gloves, a pompom beanie and a sexy tote accent a gorgeous white sherpa ¾ length. Bring out those blues!
  • Dark Denims: speaking of blue, leave the black jeans in the closet next to the washout bleached jeans. It’s a season of deep dark blue for this winter’s denim trend. New shades and styles might show up, but take it up a notch with dark indigo shades. The current silhouette of choice is straight-leg or wider, but all you really need to do to be on point is pick a look that you like in a blue hue that compliments you.
  • Teddy Bear Shearling & Faux Fur: I’m so happy. I tell people… now that winter is here? I’ll be cold till the end of April. I’ve been stocking up on shearling and fleece fashions more than usual really just for warmth. But now that I know they are warm AND in style this season? SCORE! With Valentine’s Day stuff out now (don’t get me started), I’m sure teddy bear tops will be out and on sale most likely. Faux fur tote bags, purse bling, makeup bags, bucket hats, the list goes on. I saw this coming last year so I hit sales across the board all year. Don’t forget—they are a perfect go-together with those deep indigo flared denims too. Yay me, yay my closet!
  • Combat Boots: HOORAY! Doesn’t matter the weather or temperature, combat boots are on my must-have nearby footwear. I love the comfort of them but I mainly love how I can accessorize my wear-with-anything footwear. I’ll wear bandanas around the (circa 1984), chains (circa 1990), clip on flowers (circa Blossom). Just make sure they are comfortable. If they are a bit snug or a slight rubbing on a little toe, don’t do it. You want your combat boots to melt onto your feet. Butter… they should feel like butter. Invest in the leather and treat it against the elements. It will pay for itself!

I have to say I was pleased with the trends for this season. I don’t embrace red fashions well but I’m definitely trying to find shades that I think compliment me and my hair color. The faux fur is fun in fashion but I think I’m going to go the handbag route and maybe some hoodies. I think the extra layers and warmth will get me till summer or 80°, whichever comes first. And to add some deep blue extras, indigo flared jeans and my fave combat boots give me so many options for style, warmth and comfort. Now if you will excuse me, I’m going to celebrate 2024 in a cozy, comfortable way. On the couch. Have a fabulous new year….and stay sassy!

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September Must Haves…

20 Oct

I had been getting an Ipsy subscription bag for geesh… 8+ yrs? After all this time, I have found items I have fallen in love with. I even found some that have intentionally fallen in the garbage. This month I decided to try some of these great samples and see how my skin, hair and nails look and feel. Now I know why so many companies choose to sample a new product during the perfect time of year. Purchase point, price, need, want and money timing all play a part. Let’s see what items got my attention in September:

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Skin Care: Ultra Tonic Watermelon Extract Facial Toner

I used to use a facial toner each time I washed my face. I like knowing that no traces of makeup are left and my skin has a correct Ph level. Cleansers are a must but I like that extra bit of “ahhhh” that the toner gives me. This toner has a nice light watermelon scent but what’s even better is that it doesn’t burn my skin, causes no irritation and gives my skin an overall softer feel. I can see how this would be a nice pick me up on my face out of the refrigerator in the summer. That’s a double “ahhhhh’. Dew of the Gods Ultra Tonic /Watermelon Extract Facial Toner, $29.25

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Make Up — L.A. Colors Browie Wowie Brow Pomade

There was a time when you didn’t leave the house without doing your brows which usually took 30 min +/- . Now? I’ve managed to get them to a decent shape by precise tweezing and becoming a skilled brow ninja with sharp-tip tweezers and a mirror. After seeing this L.A. brow pot with a nice brush, I felt I had to give it a try. It was a bit more challenging at first but the look was natural, the color was spot on and it got much easier over time. Tip: Do a quick #2 pencil line to follow then create your look by painting with the liner brush and a spoolie. This was such a great price, I bought a backup a week later. L.A. Colors Browie Wowie Brow pomade (Soft Brown) $7.99

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Hair and Nails — NYK1 Super Strong Nail Glue for Tips, Acrylic and Press On Nails

After almost 30 years of biting my nails, I quit cold turkey on 12/5/1997. I remember the date because it was a huge accomplishment for me. I wanted long, hooker red nails without sitting for an hour, filing, pushing and soaking only to have them tear off and get weak in about 10 days. I love the designs of fake nails but I usually lose about 7 out of 10 in the first three hour. Then a friend said I had to try this glue. Better than Gorilla Glue. Best selling nail glue on Amazon. I felt this was definitely challenge worthy and I went for it. I read the instructions which is very important. Get your tools, grab your fitted nails, use the glue as directed and go! They stick and they stay. My pointer finger will usually come off first, but that’s because I use it as a.tool. This way of doing my nails is not damaging them and I’m pleased on how easy and long wearing they are. My nails are very long and growing stronger. I now happily choose prepainted nails so they don’t chip and even if I lose one, I will sand down the glue and the inside of the nail and reapply. Easy peasy, lemon squeezy! NYK1 Super Strong Nail Glue, $12.99

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Fashion — Sidefeel Women’s Flare Bell Bottom Jeans with High Waist

They are back and I couldn’t be happier. I’m not a skater girl, but my sister was a child of the 60’s so I lean towards the hippie lifestyle. Well, for 10 days a year at least. I had ordered a pair of jeans earlier last month that fit terrible. I wanted a pair of jeans that made my ass look phenomenal without having to pour myself into them. Well, I found them. With frayed bell-bottom hems. They actually come in other styles and colors butI was drawn to these immediately. Don’t miss this comeback trend this season. Want ideas on how to keep a flared pair of jeans tucked into your high boots or UGGs this winter? Duct tape around the ankles of the jeans. Make sure you lay them flat against your ankle so the tape and the denim doesn’t bunch up. It’s definitely a seasonal casual jean that can look chic with anything stylish on top this season. (Add specific ‘23 fall fashion items that are styling like red tops, sweaters & tops with peplum bottoms, bright colored lightweight flannels, fuzzy jackets and so much more.) Sidefeel Women’s Flare Bell Bottom Jeans with High Waist, $42.00

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Accessories — POWSAV Store 18 Outlets Surge Protector Power Strip

It may seem ridiculous to get a power strip with this many outlets but let me tell you— it’s not. My hairdryer uses one and covers one up because the plug is so big. In fact 4 of my outlets do that. I have three different charging cords that go to my ring light, my LED’s, and a neon sign on my mirror. This easily is worth every penny and even if I need a “Stay Sassy” window sign, there is room to plug it in. Surge Protector Strip, $24.98

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**BONUS**—miisso Ultra Slim Power Bank w/Built in charging cords

Organization is beyond a necessity to me. My papers are filed alphabetically, spices are organized by season, medicines are sorted by time taken or are alphabetical. And don’t even get me started on my clothes. Oh my closet! You get the point. What was the point? Oh yeah, if you free up space in your life, it will be more organized. This charger takes up very little space and it’s pink. Can recharge your cell phone with one full power bank charge. Definitely going to bling it out then slip it in a small compartment in my purse. Works for Apple 10–pin jacks and a C jacks, which are attached. Ultra Slim Power Bank, $27.98

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I definitely found some great goodies that have been a help right when I got them in September. Thanks to all the reviewers who leave honest reviews. It’s always a good surprise when you find an item that is reviewed by non-influencer who just loves great products. Like me.

Things are off to a slow start this month so we will see what we can do to stay fab. Till then…… Stay Sassy!

** All of the products I write about are linked to my Amazon store. Purchases made there will result in commissions earned, however it does not affect the final purchase amount of the item(s). Bottom line—we will have fun, shop a little and we all win!**

And don’t forget…

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July Must Haves…

25 Jul

Second month! Woot woot! Now don’t give me slack—I’m running to drs and occupational therapy for my bilateral broke wrists plus other drs visits. In addition to all this plus preparing for Eric and I’s yearly trip to our art camping festival, things have fallen a tad behind. Plus I’m a bit concerned on how much I can take while healing. I’m hesitant to put myself way out there while I continue to mend I must say. I am tired of watching time pass me by out my living room window for another season. So we will see how this goes.

Skin Care:

DERMA E Vitamin C Concentrated Serum with Hyaluronic Acid – I think a good face serum is a necessity. You’ve got that skin for the rest of your life… you need to take care of it every day. When you get a serum, try to target only one or two major concerns. You don’t want skin care overload. Derma E’s serum keeps my face bright, even toned plus a boost of hyaluronic acid for soft, smooth skin A little is all you need and it absorbs quick. Keep your light shining bright as well as your skin. **Tip: Add a drop of 100% pure Vitamin E oil to your daily serum to help heal tiny cracks in your skin from weather, sun, environment or others but still remember that sunscreen!) Amazon, $20.49 (20% off coupon available at times)

Makeup:

Realher I Am Convinced Setting Powder— I am the first to admit that the “must have” item in a drag workroom that I too call a must is loose, translucent powder. Depending on the occasion, you either lightly dust to set or you sit with waiting to “bake” it on. No oven needed. Your body temp will soften your foundation, fill fine lines then set it with a loose layer of powder. I found quickly that carrying a tub of loose powder in your purse a horribly messy situation. This great pressed powder is lightweight and gives your skin a nice matte finish without any clumping or smudging on the skin. The shade is perfect and I couldn’t be happier. A big score for Ipsy on this one. (Click picture to link to product)

Hair & Nails:

Seche Vite Dry Fast Top Coat – It was a while back when I read a Top 5 Reader’s Favorite Top Coat list in a fashion magazine. I was able to find Seche Vite’s very easily in my local CVS. It did not fail. Everything that the users raved about was fact. It dried fast, was super shiny, chip proof and was smooth to work with. My only complaint? Because of its quick dry formula, it begins to thicken and clump in the bottle within a few months. Now, I just buy one at the beginning of each summer since that’s when my mani’s and pedi’s are most important. This by far is my go-to brand. Nothing has come close and it’s the only top coat you will find in this house!! (Click picture to link to product)

Fashion:

White Tanks – I couldn’t be happier to see this trend on this season’s list. I love tank tops not just because they are cool in the summer but because you can wear them as a layer with jackets or sweaters. This season, you’ll find cute tanks with flower trim, rhinestone necklines, and carefully placed splotches of color. And to rock a bold bright white color brings a touch of class to the look even a bit more. And please… we all know a white tank with a denim bottom and/or leather jacket just looks FAB! Period. Remember to wear a NUDE regular or strapless bra.) Shein, $6.49

Accessories:

Juicy Couture Puffer Tote – I need another purse like I need a hole in the head. But when my wrists took a turn from whole to pieces, I needed something I could sling quickly over my shoulder. Without difficulty. This not only has the bling, the name and the size I wanted,but the price was a bonus. Holds folded papers and can easily hold a large wallet, a cosmetic bag, and about five other small/medium storage zip bags. This will be around for a while! (Click picture for availability links.)

The collection of goodies that August will feature has already began. Back to school shopping and it’s time for me to look ahead to see what will help you look and feel your best. Always remember if you have any product or availability questions, shoot me a message and I’ll help the best I can.

Till (later) August?……

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June Must Haves…

13 Jun


Very often I try to do a favorites list, especially if it is for a new month or season. I’ve decided to really be diligent in consistently listing my five current faves each month. Each fave will fall in a different category so I don’t overload with eye makeup or serums. There will be one new favorite item from the following categories: Skin Care, Makeup, Hair & Nails, Fashion and Accessories. Sometimes we will have a BONUS PRODUCT if it can’t fit into a specific category or if it just too fab to be passed over. Got it? Let’s tackle June—

Skin Care:  

Aveeno®️Positively Mineral®️ Sensitive Skin Sunscreen Broad Spectrum SPF 50 – When it comes to protecting my skin from the sun, I’m very particular. I like a product for sensitive skin, a mineral SPF, broad spectrum protection, and highly favored amongst the industry experts…you! This tube is everything this redhead needs to keep her fair skin guarded from the harmful rays. It might not be thought of as skin care but the fact is—it is. Big time. Especially areas around the eyes & neck where the skin is its thinnest. Your sunscreen goes on last in your skincare routine. (To see your order of skincare products, click here.) HUGE help!!! Walmart, $22.96

Makeup:  

L.A. Colors Holographic Iridescent Lipgloss in Sugared— I love all things that shine, shimmer and sparkle. Gloss is back right now in a big way, from sheer to highly pigmented. Don’t let the price get you. This gloss serves! Although the colors are super sheer, they give a great gloss topper. I like to fill in my lips with a liner and topping it off with this gloss. Of course they smell & are flavored like cake batter for extra hearts. Hint: If you want access to one, try finding these glosses in Dollar General. The price is right & you can usually get 1-2 shades for $3/ea or less.

Hair & Nails:

CHI Keratin Flex Finish & CHI Enviro 54 Hairspray Firm Hold—Let me be honest, I haven’t used hairspray in well over 5 years. I was styling my hair differently, my salon was using different treatments, it was healthy and I wanted to keep it that way. Recently I’ve been playing around with other fun looks and wanted to keep my hair in place for a few photos. I usually use the Keratin Flex on M-F giving me a soft hold without stickiness. The Enviro 54 is my go-to for all night, weekend looks and to keep my tresses in place for photos without a stiff, glued down look. In the morning I spray my hairbrush with a light conditioning oil to calm frizzies and gently detangle any knots, then apply a light spray of my CHI hold product. I got these in a trail size, but next time I’ll invest in the full size! CHI.com, $9.98

Fashion:

Red—I know it’s not a piece of clothing or a pair of shoes, but it is necessary to know what are the hot colors of the season to create a wardrobe full of chic. If you can spark your trendy skirt with a statement color, you are 2x ahead of the fashion game. And one of the hot colors this summer is red. From deep cherry red to fiery brights, there’s a red for you.  As a redhead, I have tried to incorporate reds into my wardrobe but I never feel they look good on me. I have been told otherwise however. So I started slow wearing black tops with red accents and a subtle red lip. Now? I’ll go full on. What’s nice about the reds this summer is that the color is going to roll over into the fall/winter fashions too. So get all pieces—camis, tshirts, cardigans, etc.—and be ready to layer! Macys Women’s Ruffled Flutter-Sleeve Knit Top, $24.78

Accessories:

Statement Sunglasses—When the retro cat eye glasses came back into the scene, sunglasses went wild. Everything old is new again. Grab a pair of aviators or sleek cat eye bedazzled sunglasses and rock that look. Make sure your sunglasses protect your eyes from the sun and aren’t just pretty. I like to have a pair that are amber to wear with warm-colored fashions. I also have a pair of black rimless sunnies that go fabulous with a fashion forward denim outfits. Go try some on and see what catches your eye. Bad pun. Sorry. SHEIN Women’s Rimless Rectangle Lens Fashion Eyeglasses, $2.06

BONUS PRODUCT:

Freshly Picked Blueberry Whipped Soap Sugar Scrub—Its really important that you exfoliate your skin head to toe in the summer. When it comes to your body, you want to treat yourself to a sweetly scented bath treat to keep your skin clean and soft after a day in the sun. This absolute delish smelling lightweight cleanser and exfoliator is gentle on the skin with all natural ingredients and stimulates your senses with a tasty scent that screams summer. I will be getting the whole set (body cream and bar soap) of this scent soon! Kingsofcloutco.com, $13.99

Summer is here and we need to be ready. Are you? Sort out that closet of unworn winter items, summer items that just don’t jazz you anymore, shoes & sandals that hurt your feet and worn-out accessory purses and get ready for the beautiful season of summer. Have any questions? Pop me an email! 

Till July?……

 

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The Lipstick Effect…

2 Jun

As I was checking my website this morning, I realized that I haven’t posted anything to my blog since February of 2020. Yeah, I know, I have been slacking. But I honestly have a few good reasons. First and foremost, a week after my last post, I got sick. I mean REALLY sick. COVID was just beginning to be discussed and the symptoms of the virus were just coming to light. I went to the ER because the fevers I had were horrible, I ached from head to toe, and I had completely lost my sense of taste and smell. At that time, the only test they could give me was a flu test. That came back negative. Once they saw that, however, I was IMMEDIATELY sent home. I was sick for almost three weeks. When I finally felt good enough to regain my regular routine, the country had gone into shutdown mode and my place with the tattoo shop had temporarily closed until further notice. Now, three months after that… I am home. Still. *sigh*

I am not going to get political or medical in this post. I am not here to bitch and complain. I will not take a personal stance on what the country is going through, what my out of work friends are dealing with or my thoughts on the state of our society. I am a writer. I write about the glamour industry. I write about makeup and skincare. I write about things like lipstick colors, good moisturizers and shoes. Sometimes I write about my love of coffee and my appreciation of nature. And to be honest with you, that is what I am going to continue to write about.

So before I get into future posts about what products I’m loving, needing, appreciating or feel just meh about, I want to talk to you about something I have noticed over the past three months. Something I learned about MANY MANY years ago, and never had the chance to see it in action until now. Why do women (and yes, some men) feel the need to shop extensively for beauty items when times are tough? Since the end of March–when the world had gone into a “pause” because of this pandemic–I have seen people all over the world not just talking about makeup but also BUYING it. A LOT of it! Money is tight for some, many people are out of work, others haven’t left their homes in months. Yet questions about what is the best foundation, lipstick, nail polish, hair dye and so many others show up on my social media throughout the day. If I am not going out for anything other than medicines and groceries, why would someone want to know what my favorite eyeliner is right now? The answer is simple… it’s called “The Lipstick Effect.”

Taken from shmoop.com, the definition of the “lipstick effect” is explained as follows:

The economy is slowing down, and as a result, we are tightening our financial belt. For instance, we were going to buy season tickets to see our local football team, but now we’re just going to upgrade our cable package instead and watch the games at home… It gets its name from the phenomenon that the chairman of Estée Lauder noticed after 9/11: the company’s lipstick sales were going through the roof even while the economy was tanking. The theory here is that people can’t necessarily afford the luxury items they would’ve bought before—like, say, a diamond necklace—so they compensate by buying a smaller, cheaper luxury item. Like lipstick.

I am going to take that and put my own Sassy spin on it. A huge number of us have lost our jobs due to closings or have had hours and/or pay reduced. Any money we have is being put aside for necessities: housing, food, medications, utilities and other bills. Essentials. Things like the plans for a new couch, repairing the deck or getting a new stove are all put on hold. It is not a priority right now. But by nature, we thrive when we can give ourselves a bit of luxury now and then. For example, before the pandemic, it might have been a case of going out to get a gallon of paint for the garage door and coming home with that AND the big new gas grill that was at the store’s entrance at the same time. On a lesser level (but no different), it would be going to your local pharmacy to get your blood pressure medication and grabbing a bag of candy and a magazine while waiting at the checkout. That’s why it’s there. It is a quick, impulse buy that makes you feel good. And, of course, some are more expensive than others. Now, after being shut down for 3+ months, many of us feel we need a fix. A fix of something that isn’t really needed, isn’t too expensive but will make us feel lavish and somewhat alive again. Normal. You can’t justify or even afford a pair of Louboutin heels but you CAN find a way-make a way to get that Chanel Lipstick in shade 92-AMOUR. You may not even go anyplace special, but when you wear it you will feel FABULOUS. And that is important for some people’s sanity.

Is there anything wrong with that? That is on you. Everyone’s situation is different. No matter how you justify it, excuse it or deny it, the fact remains that since the Great Depression, The Lipstick Effect still happens during rough times. Especially right now. Makeup and skin care industries aren’t flourishing at this moment, but they are seeing that definite trend. Because of the expansion of the glamour market, this phenomenon includes many more things like nail polish, mascara, eye palettes, serums and even bath items. Prices of these items vary, but for a good shopper you can find that most will not break the bank. Do you really need them? That’s your call. Do what you think is right for you. For your wallet and your sanity. And keep smiling.

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Current Subscription Box Faves…

24 Feb

Each month, it’s like Christmas. I get three different subscription boxes (hopefully four soon!) loaded with goodies to try. Sometimes I get full-sized products, other times it is just little trials. I like the minis the best, I think. Because I have super sensitive skin, not everything works for me. This gives me a chance to try out some new items without losing money if it isn’t something that is right for me. There have been times that I have fallen in love with some of the goodies I get and have invested in full-sized products when I run out. If you are new to the skincare or makeup revolution, this is a great way to get your feet wet before diving in head first!

Over the past few months, I have to say that I have found some great items. With the seasons changing, this is a great time to try some different colors for spring looks as well as add some skincare items to help adjust to the new temperatures. And we can’t forget the hair and nails too! So what are some of my latest faves? Let’s see:

The BrowGal Eyebrow Pencil in Medium Brown – My brows are something that I have never really messed around with. A makeup artist that I know has always said “Don’t f*ck with the brows… leave them alone!” I have followed that tip faithfully…. until a couple of weeks ago. I won’t get into details but I had a slight mishap with a lighter which left my right eyebrow looking a little off. Okay, I burned half of it off. Don’t ask. But I had gotten this pencil a few months ago and it was finally going to get used. With my dark red hair, this was the perfect shade that I needed. It is a very good sized pencil that comes with its own sharpener as well as a shaping spoolie. I have already picked up another one of these because I know this is going to take a while to grow out and fix. Insert pathetic half-grin here. ($23)

Sunday Riley ICE Ceramide Moisturizing Cream – As soon as the temperatures outside dropped about 20 degrees and the heat kicked on, my face began to get dry. I do have extra rich moisturizer for when the weather gets colder, but this came at the right time to test out. I love how it feels on my face! It is super rich but not greasy at all. Not only did it give me that extra boost of hydration that my face needed but it also left my face looking smooth and matte. A really great product with a noticeable result. ($65)

Ciaté London Extraordinary Translucent Loose Powder – I learned last year at The Makeup Show that HD powder can cause a flashback with cameras when using high-powered flashbulbs. When I made this change for my makeup before my last photoshoot, the difference with how my skin looked in the photos was amazing. I had the chance to add this product on to a subscription last month, and I’m glad I did. The formula is soft and silky with no shine or opalescent shadows. It’s the perfect product to help “bake” your makeup. Seriously, a must-have product for artists, performers and models. ($22)

Banila Co Clean It ZERO Cleansing Balm – I don’t really hide the fact that I wear a lot of makeup. I like a bold eye look every day, and usually have a dramatic lip color to match. Because skin care is super important for me at my age, I want something that is going to get everything off easily. Someone had mentioned that cleansing balms worked great so I grabbed ZERO as an add onto my monthly subscription from Ipsy. I absolutely love how it melts onto my skin loosening everything from eyebrow pencils to an all day glitter lip look. I wipe it all away easily with a cleansing wipe and I’m done. From there I follow up with my nighttime regimen. Super happy with this product and will look for it again in he future. ($19)

Luxie Blending Brush #237 – I have no problem saying that I am addicted to makeup brushes. From thin eye liner brushes all the way to big fluff brushes, I can find a use for every one I get sent. I got this brush several months ago, and as soon as I saw it I knew it was going to get used often. And it does. It is the perfect size with the perfect amount of “fluff” to gently cut my crease with a touch of contrast shadow. Or, if I want a stand out look, I can use it to gently blend several colors together without making a blurred mess. I have found other subscribers who aren’t brush lovers like me and had decided to sell theirs which allowed me to pick up about four more. And that’s fine by me! ($14)

Although I am always very strict with myself when it comes to good skin care and makeup, I am always happy to see what is new out there that I may not know about. I think subscription boxes are a great way to try and see without making a huge financial commitment. Especially for people like me with fussy skin.

So tell me: Do you have a favorite subscription box/bag? Are you thinking about switching? What have you found that you love? Chime in and let’s get a coffee talk started!

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Great Products for the New Year…

8 Mar

Let me start out by saying this redhead has been busy! Over the past year, I have taking on two more writing positions, have become a brand ambassador for two fabulous companies, am a full-time promo model for a hot magazine and I still continue to hang with my friends while managing a fab tattoo shop in town. Everything I have learned over the years in regards to fashion, skin care, make up, glam and the tattoo industry is helping me to live my dream. Not only am I evolving my life, but I’m also the healthiest I have been in years while I am doing it. I have a great support team and I thank them every day for lifting me up with their encouragement. I am truly blessed.

I know that it is way past the beginning of a new year, but I have still been testing and trying new products and styles that help me keep up with my cool yet chaotic life! Because things are so crazy, I definitely need things that are going to do their job. And if they can save me time (and of course money), then hip hip hooray! Have I found new super products that do just that? You betcha!

Here are a few goodies that anyone could appreciate in their daily routines:

1. Urban Decay All Nighter Long-Lasting Setting Spray – Preparing your makeup for a photoshoot can take a LONG time. The last thing you need is anything like sweat or rain to cause your look to start sliding off your face. I have used setting mists in the past, but they have either fell short or turned my skin into a potato chip. You don’t need a lot to set your look and it will stay out for hours. Just spray your face in the shape of an X , keep your eyes closed for about 60-90 seconds and touch-ups will be reduced to slim-to-none. It has become a life saver in my travel bag. (Ulta.com)

2. Youngblood Mineral Rice Setting Powder – When I first got this from the How to be a Redhead Subscription Box, I really wasn’t sure if I would use it since I have my fair share of non-talc setting powders. Plus the tint in this one made me hesitant since it was more of a yellowish powder. After the first time I used it, I knew it was going to be a go-to during my makeup application. The rice powder and corn starch base helps this powder keep the shine away all day and doesn’t irritate my sensitive skin. The powder sets perfectly clear with no color at all, leaving your face with a nice matte finish. (YBSkin.com)

3. Lancôme Monsieur Big Mascara – Aren’t we all really just in search of the ‘be all, save all” mascara of all time? I am and I’m sure I may never find it as long as mascaras keep improving their formulas. This one, however, is certainly damn good. One coat for daily wear, two coats for special occasions will leave your lashes looking long and luscious. The brush is really fat which gives you a nice even, full coat from base to tips. You may find the brush is hard to maneuver on the bottom lashes—I do—so I have disposable skinny wands for precise bottom lash and corner lash applications. (Lancôme-usa.com)

4. Kryolan Contour Pencil in 971 (Black) – I picked up some of these great pencils last year when I attended The Makeup Show in NYC. I saw them used by a fabulous makeup artist and thought that any pencil that can have that many uses and be that inexpensive must have some sort of down side. I have yet to find one! I learned that by lining the water line of my upper lid can help my hooded eyes to have more pop. And this pencil does it perfectly. I get a line that stays strong all day and comes off easily with eye makeup remover. Plus the tip can sharpened to your liking, and is soft enough to not tug at the skin around your eyes. (Kryolan.com)

5. No 7 Instant Illusion Wrinkle Filler – There are only so many miracles we can fix without hiring a plastic surgeon. I expected a full-blown face lift when I bought this product. Because I didn’t see that immediately, I put the tube off to the side. After a week or so, I decided to try it again with more realistic expectations. That’s when I saw what amazing things this actually does. Although it can’t hide deep deep laugh lines, it does fill in fine lines and wrinkles around my eyes, lips and forehead. It helps to defuse and reflect light giving my face an all-over smooth look. (Ulta.com)

6. Impäkt Organic Skin Care Glossing Lip Treatment – This winter has been hell on my skin. Especially my lips. I have always battled the chapped lips devil all through the year, but this year has been terrible. They haven’t been getting just chapped either. They split, peel, bleed and even get blotchy. I was lucky enough to try a sample of this (thanks to my friends at How to be a Redhead) little gem in Raw Cocoa and noticed an improvement in just days. Ingredients such as raw beeswax, sativa oil, raw honey and shea butter put healing nutrients into the skin and not just over it. The healing begins on a cellular level, which helps to prevent the problems before they occur. (impaktorganic.com) ** Watch my blog for reviews on more products from Impakt Organics soon!**

7. TwinMedix Pro:Refine Primer/Moisturizer – When time is of the essence, it is helpful to have products that can do multiple things at the same time. This is a nourishing moisturizer that not only preps and primes the face for smooth makeup application but it also plumps and firms giving your skin a nice all-over glow. Packed with rich hydration from shea butter and jojoba oil, this gem also gives your face boost of nourishing B5. Finish those great ingredients off with a touch of hyaluronic acid for a youthful appearance. (TwinMedix.com)

8. Crown Brush Tapered Concealer Brush C425 – Since I have been getting very precise and detailed with my eye looks, it is important to me to have a good concealer brush that is tight enough to get around my eyes with intricate accuracy. I have A LOT of brushes that I have picked up over the years, but this one is always clean and close by during my makeup application. It is small, fine and flat enough to hide skin imperfections while cleaning up any last minute fall out or errors in the area. (Crownbrush.com)

I wish the contents of my vanity only showed these few products plus a little more to be able to have everything I needed to do a full skin care and makeup look each day. Unfortunately, depending on a number of factors, I need all of that and MUCH MORE. No worries, though. I have managed to get my supplies organized in a way to have access to whatever I need at any given time. It is important for all of us to remember to keep our items clean and fresh. Remember to go through your entire product drawers once in a while (when you change the clocks is a perfect time!) to look, test and smell each item you have. Things can go bad, as well as pick up bacteria to make them “spoil”. One thing that is good to help you avoid the transfer of ickies is to scrape out just what you will need with a (clean) makeup spatula, put that on a stainless steel mixing plate (crownbrush.com, $8.95 for the combo) and apply it from there. Not only does this reduce the chance of your makeup acquiring bacteria but it also prevents color mixing.

With these new goodies, I plan on having fun trying and developing new looks for myself in the future. Do you have any new goodies to share that you have discovered are “must haves” in your glam box? Share with me and others so we can all know what is hot on the shelves!!

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